I have done that with one of my relatives that was the perp. He broke down too. I have a pretty good relationship with that one.
The other one: He doesn't deserve my forgiveness and probably wouldn't care anyway. He still blames me for everything. Therefore, I will refuse to step foot in any room that he may be in. I've often thought of sending him an email, but figure what the heck? Why? He'll deny it. Turn it around and blame me and I would rather be burnt over and over again with a branding iron than have him think he's got one up on me. My life is my party and he's not invited to it anymore. :0 )
It's so nice to hear that you can forgive. I see I have more work to do on myself.
Posted on Mar 28, 2002, 3:19 PM from IP address 63.161.12.129