At my website (http://www.geocities.com/wellesley/5585) I have links to some books. One I think you might find helpful is called The Verbally Abusive Relationship: How to Recognize it and How to Respond. It sounds to me like he is being overly controlling and verbally abusive toward you, and you do NOT deserve that.
Safe hugs if you want them,
Terrie
Posted on May 9, 2002, 7:04 PM from IP address 205.188.197.151