Personally, I think that if he has tended to brush it off when you try to talk to him about this, then a letter, whether it be e-mail or on paper, was probably the best way to approach the situation. Hopefully it will open up a good discussion, because I think you are quite capable of expressing yourself. If you want, let him see what you wrote here, about how you want him involved in your life because he matters to you. And whatever happens, keep hanging in there are remember that you are not alone.
Love and safe hugs,
Terrie
Posted on Oct 25, 2000, 6:12 PM from IP address 205.188.192.22