It is hard to let someone close to you when you expect those close to you to abuse you. Letting someone get close makes you so vulnerable. But you know what? We don't LET them abuse us....they just do. Even if we don't fight it, we are not LETTING them do it, we are being made to do it by their power over us, in whatever form that power is. THEY are the responsible ones, not us. We do not and did not deserve or ask for the abuse. I hope you keep coming back...you are more than welcome to post here anytime. You're not alone.
Peace,
Terrie
Posted on Nov 4, 2000, 10:31 AM from IP address 152.163.207.209