I have a good web addy that is written by a person who did I. She suggested that she was feeling totally against the process when it just started to happen because she was ready at that time. For myself I decided that it is probably the only way it can happen for me, I am so afraid of it.
If you are interested I will try search for it.
Elise
Posted on Sep 7, 2001, 7:07 AM from IP address 65.25.250.200