Healing Our Lives (Moderated)

This is a place of connection and healing for survivors of childhood abuse. Please note that the banner below is not by my choice, but is necessary for me to be able to provide you with this free site. Other places of interest include Angry Expressions where you can express you anger, and Memory Meadow where you can share your memories. Also, please feel free to go to Healing Our Lives Chat to talk in real time with other survivors, or I have started another chat room which you can access by clicking the button below.

If no one is there, and/or you want to chat with just me, you may do so whenever I am online by clicking on the button below:

Terry

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I was thinking about you and wanted to write you a note, but I think you moved since the address I have, so don't know where to write you at! Maybe you could send me an email and let me know how you're doing....

Love ya,
Terrie

Posted on Mar 10, 2007, 9:13 PM
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Hi gorgeous friend

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It's been a long time since I visited! I am doing ok, yes the address you have for me would be out of date, I moved when I left the husband in 2005 and will most likely be moving again at the end of the year. All being well I expect to be moving in with Carol....the light of my life

This year has been difficult with protracted family law issues in trying to negotiate a settlement with my ex. We have finally reached a settlement agreement, now to wait and see if he honours it. Unfortunately he has been extremly uncoperative but as he is now in contempt of several court orders he will get his act together and pay me out.

The stress of the last 18 months trying to negotiate this ,pay lawyers, keep working, raising the kids etc has taken its toll and I haven't been as well as I would have liked however I keep reminding myself that I am resiliant and will get back on track.

Enough of me!!!!

How are you?? We often think of you and always regard you as a blessing in our life. I have attached my email so pleeze drop us a line.

Much love

Terry

Posted on Jun 16, 2007, 6:32 AM
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Moved from A Safe Place forum

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Hello,
I am a licensed social worker in Massachusetts and I am writing to inform you of my personal goal to inform others about child abuse and to extend a hand in healing to survivors. In March 06 I published my story of healing from Mother-daughter incest, a subject as taboo as the act itself. My book is titled: Warming the Stone Children by Christine Sandor. If you can take a moment to view my web site, you can also read excerpts from the book. I would also be happy to send a copy of the book for your review if you are willing and send me a name and address. The web site is: www.christinesandor.com . Both the site and the book are intended to assist those who have been abused, in traveling from the darkness to the light of healing. I am also more than willing to do workshops based on my book.
This subject must be talked about in order for others to have a deeper understanding and do something about it. Our work is invaluable. I am asking for your help in getting the word out about my book. I can only ask what you can do.
Thank you for your work.
Christine

Posted on Jan 3, 2007, 1:26 PM
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Hi Terrie :o)

by Watcher (no login)

Hope you had a nice holiday! Wondering how you have been doing.

Things here are pretty quiet and some things are resolving from our really long tough year.

Posted on Dec 26, 2006, 5:39 PM
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Hi Watcher

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I did have a nice holiday, and am now back at work. Thanks for asking. I'm glad things seem to be going ok for you. Yayayayayay!!! I always like hearing those kinds of updates.

Love,
Terrie

Posted on Dec 27, 2006, 2:23 PM
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This is very inspiring!

by Watcher (no login)

I actually cried with relief.

Four women in Holland saved close to three hundred horses (says 100 but later tallies showed it to be many more) who were stranded in a flooded area.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=9n9wd7P5Apw&mode=related&search

Posted on Nov 14, 2006, 10:07 AM
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wow

by (Login HealingWymn)
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this is awesome...thanks for sharing!

Posted on Nov 20, 2006, 10:52 PM
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You know...

by Watcher (no login)

It was such a simple thing in the end. The odds looked so terribly stacked against them and yet with patience and perseverence in feeding by boats, things turned out ok.

If only we could reflect on our own lives in that way when things go wonky we could save ourselves a lot of grief and worry, eh?

Posted on Nov 22, 2006, 7:21 AM
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feliz cumpleanos

by jeni (no login)

feliz cumpleanos
feliz cumpleanos
feliz cumpleanos mummy terrie
feliz cumpleanos

te quiero a las estrellas

Posted on Oct 21, 2006, 10:08 AM
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jeni

by (Login HealingWymn)
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muchos grasias jeni. Te amo a las estrellas.

Posted on Oct 23, 2006, 11:36 AM
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smoking

by denna (no login)

Hi,
It has been years since I have visited this website. I am running into a tad bit of trouble trying to quit smoking. I have DID. I'm doing this new therapy called developmental needs meeting strategy to help me integrate. It's helping. The thing is I'm having control issues over what does or does not go into my mouth. I was orally abused as a child. A lot. Has anyone here tried to quit smoking who's had this happen to them? Please help.

Thanks,
Denna

Posted on Aug 17, 2006, 6:02 PM
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Hi Terrie

by Watcher (no login)

Its getting a bit better. Nothing is resolved yet of course, but at least that one thing seems to be easing up a bit.

Posted on Jul 9, 2006, 6:57 PM
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Watcher

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I'm glad to know that one thing is easing up a bit and that things are getting a bit better.

On my side, I had a rough last two weeks. The organization I work for is restruturing, and my job no longer exists. They gave us 2 weeks notice, and gave us the option to apply for other positions, which I did. After a lot of stress and chaos, they finally offered me a position that pays less than what I was making, 2 days before my job was ending. I accepted it, but I'm only staying until I find something better. I have an interview after work tomorrow, as well as another lead...so we'll see what happens.

Anyway, I'm very glad to hear from you...and I hope things keep getting better.

Terrie

Posted on Jul 16, 2006, 4:08 AM
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Oh dear

by Watcher (no login)

I'm sorry you are going through that, seems there is a lot of it going around. They report the economy is strong but I seem to know way too many who are "restructured" into nowhereland. I hope you will find something really great, you deserve it as far as I am concerned!

We are still kind of feeling our way around, lots has happened but we don't seem to be getting anywhere. Time will tell I guess.

I miss talking to you, why the heck have I stayed away so long?

Posted on Aug 12, 2006, 7:35 PM
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Ongoing saga...

by Watcher (no login)

Hubby has a job, far less money, far less benefits and he has to commute pretty far (which we both hate) but he loves the job.

The long term plan is probably to sell this place and find another closer to work. More acres is on the list which is about the only thing we had wished with this place.

You never know what this world will throw at you, but one thing it did do was make the man talk. At first we were maybe going to move to Texas and it would have meant being apart possibly for several months while our ranch was up for sale. He really didn't want to do that and we dicided not to move after taking an initial trip there. He said that through all this it really showed him how much he loves me and wants to be together. Now how could life get any better than that?

Yeah, we are struggling again just like when we first got married but there is no life for me without him. I was willing to do whatever needed to be done to get what he wanted and I really did NOT want to move to Texas. Turns out we both want the same things.

So how is your job situation going? Are you still in the alternative job or did you find another?

Posted on Sep 6, 2006, 10:42 AM
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Watcher

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Sounds like things are looking up for you again...I'm so glad to hear that!

I did find another job, doing counseling again, which is what I like. I'm working in another residential treatment facility for substance abuse, so in many ways it's very similar to what I was doing. But now I'm working 2nd shift, and meet with my clients twice as often, so it keeps me very busy, as opposed to my other job where I had a lot of "down time." Still, I like it alot.

I'm glad we are keeping in touch better...I miss talking to you when you're gone.

Terrie

Posted on Sep 8, 2006, 1:15 PM
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You silly...

by Watcher (no login)

I'm not gone, I'm still here. LOL

I miss talking too but the internet has become a dangerous and unforgiving place so its best not to stick your head up too far at times, eh?

Posted on Sep 11, 2006, 5:42 AM
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true

by (Login HealingWymn)
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you're right...you are still here...I guess I should just say that I miss talking to you when you are silent...yeah?

Posted on Oct 5, 2006, 2:36 AM
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Yes indeed

by Watcher (no login)

I miss talking too. sigh

It seems unfair that we are restricted to a few comments only when events happen and that we can no longer have a daily interface but thats the way it goes.

Posted on Oct 11, 2006, 7:40 AM
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WOW been nearly a year since I stopped by

by Terry (no login)

Hello dear Terrie and those who visit this little haven,

I could hardly believe that it was August last year that I last posted here!! What a wonderful year it has been for me, as always there are ups and downs but mostly up....makes a change from the last few years.

My life continues to be busy, working two jobs, raising three teenagers, running a home etc but I am happier than in a very long time. My relationship goes from strength to strength, what a joy

My internal life is sooo much quieter and calmer than in many years, we still have some challenges to overcome but on the whole my girls and i are stronger, more peaceful and grounded in the here and now.

Being loved, accepted, supported and encouraged makes such a difference.

Terry

Posted on Jun 29, 2006, 9:56 AM
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Terry! :)

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Oh, Terry...it's so wonderful to hear from you! I'm so thrilled to hear that you are doing well, and that you are happy. You deserve that so much!

I'm doing ok overall...but am looking for a new job, as mine will no longer exist in a week when they reorganize the agency. I might be able to transfer to another position within the agency (don't know yet), but I'm looking elsewhere as well, and expect to take a job elsewhere eventually regardless. I know it'll all work out...just don't know yet how. LOL

Anyway, please do continue to keep me posted on how you're doing, even if it's just with an occasionally post. And please know how much you are loved....

Your friend,
Terrie

Posted on Jul 7, 2006, 9:41 PM
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:o)

by Watcher (no login)

That is great news to hear. Believe it or not, I am still watching too. lol

Posted on Jul 9, 2006, 6:59 PM
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Set the little girl free

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Hello, happy to find this site. Hard to cope with past abuse at times. Can say there has been healing, but much more to go. Would like to talk to others who would understand........

Posted on Jun 23, 2006, 8:41 AM
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Hi cindy!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Hello, and welcome! I'm Terrie and I manage this site. I can sometimes be slow to approve messages, but I do get it done, and I look forward to getting to know you. It's pretty quiet here, but the people who do post are great people. I hope you will make yourself at home.

Terrie

Posted on Jul 7, 2006, 9:37 PM
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Terrie! I'm in the thick of things again!

by Watcher (no login)

Boy am I ever tired of life's problems and pushy crappy people who step all over me and there is nothing I can do about it because of my heart condition.

So tell me, how do I stay happy and let the crap float by????? Seems like people take one look at this fluffy bunny and just want to beat the heck of me! I just want to live in peace.

Posted on Jun 6, 2006, 7:31 PM
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Hi Watcher!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Sounds like you could benefit from having some better boundaries.... I'm wondering why your heart condition won't let you do anything about people walking all over you....because it sounds like you are feeling upset about it and that's not any better for your heart than standing up for yourself....

As for how to let the crap float by....good question. One thing I find is that many of us get upset when someone does something different than what we want them to do. I know I do, sometimes, anyway. The thing is, though.....that whenever we are creating expectations of what someone else "should" do, we are basically trying to make their rules of living for them....and that doesn't work, because they're going to do what they choose to do, regardless of if it's what we think they should do or not. And then when they do their own thing, we (or at least I) get upset at them for not doing what I thought they should have done. Basically, that's just setting myself up to get mad.

As an example....let's say that someone has asked me to drive them to the store, and I said ok. In my mind I may have decided that this won't take more than an hour, and they should offer me some money for gas. Then, when they can't find what they want/need at the first store, and it ends up taking 2 hours, I get upset. When I drop them back off at home and they just say "See ya later." and don't even thank me, much less offer me gas money, I get upset about that too. I start thinking, "They are so inconsiderate...they took up two whole hours of my time and not only didn't give me any gas money, but didn't even thank me!" Well, the thing is, first of all, we didn't say how long it would take....I assumed it would not take more than an hour. If I really only had an hour to offer, I could have told them that up front, or told them that after the first store and said that I didn't have time to go to the second store today and that I'm sorry they didn't find what they were looking for but that I have to take them back home. Also, if I really expected to get some gas money, I could have said something up front about that as well, rather than assuming that they would offer and then getting mad when they didn't. As for the thank you...while it's true that the polite thing to do is to thank someone for helping you, the fact is that many people don't always think to be polite, and to expect them to do so is again assuming that they will do something that I'm not guaranteed they will do. So in the end, I have set myself up to feel used and taken advantage of by not communicating clearly and my having unspoken expectations. Make sense?

You weren't real specific about how people step all over you or about what kind of crap you are encountering...but if you would like to share more details I would be happy to help you try to figure out how to deal with whatever is going on with you.

As always, I'm so glad to hear from you. I do hope you are feeling better soon.

Caringly,
Terrie

Posted on Jun 12, 2006, 3:22 PM
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Hi Terrie

by Watcher (no login)

I wrote to you. I probably owe you some communicatoin after all this time anyway.

Posted on Jun 18, 2006, 9:55 AM
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A simple Hi

by (no login)

Hi Sister Survivors,

(((((Terrie, kindred Spirit)))))

My Name is Traci. Just rebounding from a tough therapy session and needed to 'talk out loud'.

I've been in and out of therapy for hmmm...6 yrs or so. I've healed alot, really alot. And decided (what was I thinking) to go back to therapy and do the 'core abuse' work that I've been avoiding and refusing to do. And on nights like tonite when it feels like 'why am I doing this again?!' its hard to stay motivated and have faith in the process and in the trails that have been blazed by courageous women before us (like Terrie), but I will rebound in a couple of days and feel the clarity seeping in, and the resolve to never be a victim, and the desire to share the journey with those important to me, and the even stronger desire to reach out a hand to those who aren't there yet.

My story....still unfolding..even to me...that happens when you do 'core abuse' work.. but I digress.

My 2 older brothers and myself were removed from a neglected environment when I was about 4 yrs old. One of my brothers and I were raised as adoptive children with a maternal great aunt and uncle who had 6 children of their own, my oldest brother (emotionallly delayed) was placed with my maternal grandmother.

Ove a period of many (21)years I was sexually abused by all 6 of my foster siblings and 1 of my biological siblings; as well as my foster father. Core abuse work means I get to feel the effects of that much abuse and rebuild my life based upon the truth of where I was, and where I am. Still a alot of work to do but and right now it don't feel like i'm ever going to get there. Not fun. But necessary for me.

While I'm not DID, I have met many dear dear sister survivors on forums similar to this one who I'll always hold dear to my heart. I'm here if you need to talk.

So, that's my story, so far. I'm sure there's more to come. Thanks for being a witness to my healing journey.

Peaceful rest to you,
Traci

Posted on Mar 2, 2006, 10:05 PM
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Traci!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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It's so good to hear from you Traci! Welcome!

I'm really bad about remembering to come here and approve messages, so I'm glad I got here only a few days after you wrote it, but please know that if it takes longer, that doesn't mean it won't happen...I'm just slow!

I'm so proud of you for tacking that difficult to tackle core abuse. And I understand all too well about avoiding it, too. You may call me a corageous woman who's blazed the trails ahead of you, but I've still got some of my own core stuff to do too. <sigh>

In any case, feel free to stop by here anytime...you are always welcome.

{{{{{{{{{{Traci}}}}}}}}}}}}}

Lots of love,
Terrie

Posted on Mar 6, 2006, 11:28 AM
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Hello!

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I'm new to this website. And a little nervous about posting on it. I have DID, and 65 alter personalities. I, Donica, am the host of the Leasaryn system. The word Leasaryn means 'rises from the ashes' in Elvish. I've accepted this name as the name for my system of alters: boys, girls, men and women. I'm looking for someone to talk to, a familiar soul I can relate to, who knows what it's like to be DID. It's so very difficult to find other people with DID in my area. I live in Denton, Texas (specificaly Lake Dallas, TX.)

I'm also a witch. I practice paganism. I'm not a victim of Satanic Abuse, though.

I was sexually molested when I was very, very young by an unknown rapist. To this day, I don't know who did it. My mother basically abandoned me at the age of four weeks. She had to, because we couldn't live without a second income. It didn't change the fact that I was abandoned. My father was emotionally unavailable and I felt very much alone. For most of my life, I was terrified of my mother. That's where most of my abuse comes from. It wasn't until my alters started revealing thimselves during my High School years that I was able to stand up to her, although it wasn't me who did it.

During my high school years, I was very rarely out, especially when we relocated to Carrolton from Duncanville. Most of my high school memories were viewed from a remote distance. It was because of this that I didn't attribute my strange and uncharacteristic behavior to DID. Although I have some memories of high school, I was basically a bystander. Co-conscious but not knowing why I was doing some of the things I did.

I got into trouble a lot and my mother and I were not on good terms. This was due to a very angry an rebellious alter that no longer resides in my system. I named her Faith, after the character on Buffy the Vampire Slayer, because she embodied a lot of the same characteristics.

I am co-conscious. I know who all of my alters are and know when they are out. Some are very obvious, like my Protector alter, Kronos.

Some of my female alters will occasionally come out and my step-mother is usually the first one to recognize when I'm not out in control. She and my father have become very supportive of my Multiplicity. My mother, my prime abuser, and I have mended the fences between us and she no longer feels threatened by my alters.

But, I still feel lonely. I live on my own, if you don't count my cat, Osiris. I'd like to find someone who also had DID, someone I can share my experiences with, someone who I can relate to and become friends with.

I hope there is someone who would be willing to correspond with me. I'm going through some tough times right now and could use the support. Sorry if I sound a little desperate.

Like I stated earlier, my name is Donica, but the name of my system is Leasaryn. I hope somone responds to my request.

Thank you for listening and reading my introduction.

Posted on Jan 20, 2006, 1:03 PM
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Donica and all

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Welcome to Healing Our Lives! Ths tends to be a fairly quiet message board most of the time, but the people who are here are wonderful people.

I, personally, am a supporter, but I have many many friends who have DID, so I've certainly gained some understnding of it, even though I have not been there myself.

I am glad to hear that your father and step-mother are supportive...that is a wonderful asset for you. And I also think it's great that you are co-conscious, as most systems don't achieve this until much later in life. Then again, most don't even realize they have DID so young either, so you are definately at an advantage there.

I think that much of what you describe from your life is familiar for those with DID. I'm sorry that you were so hurt by your mom, but it sounds like you and she have done some healing in your relationship.

Please feel free to post here anytime you wish. I will admit that I can be slow to check in and approve posts, and for that I apologize...but if you can be patient with me, I think you will find some great support here.

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Feb 9, 2006, 12:37 PM
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checking in

by watcher (no login)

Hi Terrie, miss you bunches, wondering how your new place is.... does your ancient email still work?

Posted on Dec 30, 2005, 7:04 AM
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Hi Watcher

by (Login HealingWymn)
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It's great to see you! And yes, my email does still work! And I am really loving my house (though it will be better when/if I can get it more clean and organized)...been there a bit over a year now! My how time flies!

I'm back in school now too...going to finally get that Master's degree!

How have you been?

Terrie

Posted on Jan 9, 2006, 3:05 PM
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Congrates on the master's!

by Watcher (no login)

Thats just wonderful news!

Truthfully, this has to be about the hardest year of our married life we have ever had. Its complicated, but suffice it to say that it isn't anything I would ever post in the open. (for obvious reasons LOL)

Life goes on. There have also been some very amazing and GOOD things about this year too. I think of you often and wonder how you have been.

Posted on Jan 24, 2006, 10:47 AM
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Thank you!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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It's going to take a while to finish the degree, but that's ok. I'm sorry that this has been a hard year for your marriage. I understand about not wanting to write about it publicly, but if you ever need to talk, you are welcome to write me privately. I'm glad some areas of your life are good though. I have missed talking with you.

Terrie

Posted on Feb 9, 2006, 12:29 PM
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Oh, mis-spoke a bit I guess

by Watcher (no login)

Hubby and I together are fine, same as ever. But things surrounding us are tough. Does that make more sense?

Posted on Feb 9, 2006, 4:24 PM
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ohhhhh

by (Login HealingWymn)
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yes, that makes sense...thanks for the clarification!

Glad you're here,
Terrie

Posted on Mar 6, 2006, 11:30 AM
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I'm....

by Watcher (no login)

OK. Thats good enough.

Posted on Feb 6, 2006, 7:19 PM
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happy birthday mummy terrie

by jeni (no login)

happy birthday again
love you to the stars

Posted on Oct 23, 2005, 5:02 AM
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Thank you

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I love you to the stars too, Jeni.

Posted on Oct 25, 2005, 8:25 AM
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G'day

by Terry (no login)

Hi good people, just having a quiet day today so I got a chance to come by and say hi. My life seems to be a bit out of control as far as busyness is concerned so today is a blessing. I have been doing washing and a few household things and I got to take a walk and am going off to have a nap soon as I have to work tonight. so just lovely to be able to do things as I want today.

Terrie much love to you, hope life is treating you well.

Terry

Posted on Aug 21, 2005, 11:21 PM
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Hi Terry

by (Login HealingWymn)
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So glad to hear you are had a relaxing day! Those are a blessing, aren't they? I did some work around the house over the weekend....we're pulling up some of the carpet and I pulled staples out of the hardwood floor. I ended up with blisters on 2 fingers, but otherwise feeling like I accomplished something!

I hope you have a lovely week, and I'm always so so glad to hear from you.

Love you lots,
Terrie

Posted on Aug 22, 2005, 7:27 AM
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Question

by Just wondering (no login)

Are we not allowed to ask? I posted a question here a few days ago and it never appeared. I was curious before, but now I am REALLY CURIOUS!

Posted on Aug 15, 2005, 4:53 AM
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Hi there

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Oh, you're allowed to ask...I just don't get around to checking the boards as often as I should to approve messages. Sorry. I had not heard that MM went private. That's very interesting. I wonder what the deal is....

Terrie

Posted on Aug 15, 2005, 10:46 PM
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No Idea

by Question (no login)

I was just wondering what happened myself. Maybe they now require a fee. LOL

Posted on Aug 16, 2005, 4:04 AM
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Huh

by :o) (no login)

Since when did Mosaic Minds go private? I think its about time as they were a private club pretending to be an open support forum for years and collected a lot of tax free dollars that way. Then I saw the site was down for a bit, now fully moderated.

Anyone know what happened? IRS finally get wise to them or something?

Posted on Aug 12, 2005, 8:16 AM
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please help

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i never could remember my childhood but never saw it as a problem. ten years ago i started having flashbacks and was hospitalized. the memories just keep coming and i thought i was going crazy. i am in therapy but that is for 1 hour a week. I desperatly want to connect with other survivors because i don't really have a support system. the memories had stopped for a long time but they have started again with new ones. my abuse was so server and started when i was so young that i have DID, PTSD, and deppresion. i am very lucky that the proffesionals in my life are very good but there are still times when i think i am making up the memories and nothing really happened. , this is when i am in a bad way. everyday i see more and more how my abuse effects every aspect of my life. just to know that i am not alone and this is very real and someone else is experancing the same things woulo help so much

Posted on Jul 3, 2005, 12:36 PM
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Hi there

by (Login HealingWymn)
Forum Owner

Hi. My name is Terrie, and I want to welcome you to Healing Our Lives. I am the owner/moderator of the board, but I tend to stay pretty busy and sometimes go a while without checking on posts to approve them...I apologize for that.

Please know you are not alone. I know it can be quiet here, but when people do talk you will find support. I also recommend that you might want to read the book Secret Survivors by E. Sue Blume, because it talks about ways that abuse can affect our lives and can validate that you are not making it all up. I'm glad you are here.

Terrie

Posted on Jul 23, 2005, 9:54 PM
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sometimes....

by terry (no login)

life sux......and it all feels too hard

hope your life is travelling ok

Terry

Posted on Jun 30, 2005, 5:26 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{Terry}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Sending you gentle hugs and lots of love,
Terrie

Posted on Jul 23, 2005, 9:59 PM
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its so quiet here

by Terry (no login)

Where have all the people gone??? Hope anyone that is crusin bye is doing ok. Hi Terrie

Posted on Jun 3, 2005, 6:32 PM
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Hi Terry!

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It's so good to see you here today. I've been so busy that I'm not here much but I'm always so happy to see you! How have you been doing? I sure miss talking to you.

Love you lots,
Terrie

Posted on Jun 6, 2005, 6:53 PM
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hi

by katy (no login)

wes still here, as always, it is soooooo quiet huh!

Posted on Jun 7, 2005, 2:15 PM
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