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This is a place of connection and healing for survivors of childhood abuse. Please note that the banner below is not by my choice, but is necessary for me to be able to provide you with this free site. Other places of interest include Angry Expressions where you can express you anger, and Memory Meadow where you can share your memories. Also, please feel free to go to Healing Our Lives Chat to talk in real time with other survivors, or I have started another chat room which you can access by clicking the button below.

If no one is there, and/or you want to chat with just me, you may do so whenever I am online by clicking on the button below:

We're back!!!

by dawni & Tonight's Sky (no login)

Hi everyone!! we're back! we had a sort of spur of the moment decision to move, and now we're living in a really nice (rental) house with hubby's sister and her family. they're nice, a little scary sometimes, but its really good and it means we get to see one neice all the time -- like, EVERY day!! it's great
this is what being an aunt really is we think, having our neice know us and like us and want to be with us and not be scared cause of not knowing who we are. but this lil neice does, and she's only 14mths but she is really smart and makes us smile a lot already

but we are glad to be back online again now and hope everyone is diong okay

love,
dawni and tonight's sky

Posted on Nov 28, 2002, 8:20 PM
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Dawni!!!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Oh, I'm so happy that you are living somewhere that you are happy. You deserve that!!!! Yayyayaya! And I'm so glad that you get to get to know your neice.

Love you,
Terrie

Posted on Nov 28, 2002, 8:54 PM
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welcom bak

by lisa (no login)

am glad yur bak an yu seem happi...
good to see you.....

take care dawi

lisa

Posted on Dec 1, 2002, 11:13 PM
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anoter ting

by lisa (no login)

yu still wan to be frinds? lisa

Posted on Dec 1, 2002, 11:14 PM
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:)

by dawni (no login)

course i do

love
dawni

Posted on Dec 2, 2002, 4:12 AM
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Happy Thanksgiving

by Watcher (no login)

Hope everyone has a good day with lots of restful peace, food, fun and time spent with the people you love.

Posted on Nov 27, 2002, 11:03 PM
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Thank you!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Thank you Watcher. Happy Thanksgiving to you too. I hope you have had a wonderful day!

Terrie

Posted on Nov 28, 2002, 8:46 PM
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very sad *TTT*

by shadow (no login)

Im so sad tonight its not fair my only close friend died. She couldnt cope anymore and she killed herself. Why didnt I know how sad she was? Why wasnt I there for her? Now there is just me. Its not fair it hurts too much


Posted on Nov 23, 2002, 7:39 PM
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am real sorry

by anon (no login)

http://www.survivingsuicide.com/cope.htm

Posted on Nov 23, 2002, 11:13 PM
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Oh no!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{{shadow}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}}} Oh sweetie, I am so so sorry about your friend. That must be devastating! Please know that it was not your fault though! Many people hide from others how sad they are, and therefore we have no way of knowing. I know it hurts a lot though, and I know the loneliness must be so hard for you on top of all the other feelings. Please know that I'm thinking about you....

Love,
Terrie

Posted on Nov 25, 2002, 7:33 AM
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So sorry

by Mary (no login)

I am so sorry. Terrie is right. I hope you know it was not your fault. If someone doesn't want you to see how sad they are, they won't let you know. That is so sad. I am truly sorry.

Posted on Nov 26, 2002, 3:07 PM
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TERRIE..............

by anonamous (no login)

i only got like a sec an i gotta be goin out an i cant not get open yahoo an dont got no outlook acount no more an i no i aint meant 2 post ya here no more or nothin but i gotta quick say am thinkin of ya an hopin yr ok an all an am sayin prayers 4 ya......i did just here bout the tornados an stuff that was in yr state an i dunno if it were near u but am hopin yr ok........
luv ya lots....from Jamie-lee.........

Posted on Nov 11, 2002, 9:30 PM
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Hi hon

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Thanks for the prayers. Thankfully, the tornados did not affect my part of Tennessee. From what I've seen/heard on the news, though, it was pretty bad! Hope you are doing well.

Love you,
Terrie

Posted on Nov 12, 2002, 6:15 PM
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am real real real REALLLLLLLLLL

by anonamous (no login)

HAPPY YA OK.........
this much happy



























AN A HAPPY HUG


Luv ya.....from Jamie-lee



Posted on Nov 12, 2002, 9:38 PM
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sad

by shadow (no login)

i have to cry somewhere - i dont want to be alone, i cant keep it in anymore, its not fair


Posted on Nov 9, 2002, 12:15 AM
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shadow

by tonight's sky (no login)

we're sorry you feel so bad shadow you're right though -- it's not fair. too bad the only way to even the score is to survive, even this, despite everything.

but you don't have to be alone. we know we can't be there for you in person but we have these boards, and we are here for you on here. sorry that there isn't more we can do.

~tonight's ksy

Posted on Nov 9, 2002, 8:42 AM
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Hi Shadow

by (Login HealingWymn)
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You are more than welcome to head over to Memory Meadow to talk about it all, or to e-mail me. You are not alone, and I am here and I care alot.

Thinking about you,
Terrie

Posted on Nov 9, 2002, 2:00 PM
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have a question......and plese be honest....

by ¸PAule and gang (no login)

if yu r in a plce.....and yu feel.......alone....even if there is lots of ppl..... lots of caring ppl........yet feel alone....skared.....and a litle out of place....? Or feel like there is something wrong yet no one tell yu....like is gut feeling?

Would you leave? take a break ? stay and do as if nothing...?

confuse.....thinking.......

US.

Posted on Nov 4, 2002, 11:53 PM
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Hi Paule & gang,

by dawni (no login)

i think it depends a lot on different stuff.. like, do you feel like that often, in other places as well? for me, no matter where i am, i kind of feel like that, so i tend to stay and try to ignore my gut feelings...
if its not soething you feel a lot, then you might wnana listen to your instincts, sometimes our inner radars pick up on things long before the rest of us does...

whatever you decide to do, i hope you'll find peace and happienss

~dawni

Posted on Nov 5, 2002, 12:41 AM
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Hi Paule

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I guess I would take a little time to evaluate the situation. Are you feeling like you are alone and like something is wrong cuz of something going on inside internally (often these feelings can be triggered by external events we might not even be aware of), or does it appear to be a reality of today? If it is a reality of today, is it truly that you don't fit in, or is it perhaps that something has changed and the people around you have been scared to talk about it? Because if this is so, then you can open up a dialogue and help bring some level of comfort to the others, and therefore to yourself too, by changing the atmosphere from one of tense discomfort to on of openness. I hope that whether this is something internal or external, that you are able to resolve this, cuz I know how uncomfortable such feelings can be. Please know that I am here for you and that I love you very much. You can e-mail me anytime if you want to talk.

Love and safe hugs,
Terrie

Posted on Nov 5, 2002, 7:26 AM
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sad

by dawni (no login)

who needs friends anyway, they just go away like everyone else, or hate you, or make up things about you...

so if i don't need thesepeople then why am i crying?

~dawni

Posted on Nov 1, 2002, 4:14 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{Dawni}}}}}}}}}}}}

by (Login HealingWymn)
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You are crying cuz it hurts when people betray us. You deserve friends who love and accept you just as you are, such as we do here. You are a wonderful person dawni, and I'm so sorry you are hurting so much....

Love you,
Terrie

Posted on Nov 2, 2002, 12:21 PM
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i m sorry

by lisa (no login)

i no wat yu meen....wo need tem? huh,....mai be yu? i no not...i no it hurt wen tey leev or find out dem are no nice ....or dem laff at yu...

i sorry u ertin so much.....i can be u frin if u want

(sorry for spelin)

lisa

Posted on Nov 2, 2002, 9:19 PM
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Lisa,

by dawni (no login)

Thank you you're a nice person. i've seen your posts on the other board, but i never know what to say.. i didn't want you to feel like i was buttin on on stuff, either.

i'd like for you to be my friend. that would be nice. and you don't have to be sorry for any spelling mistakes.. i have littles too and most of them don't spell as well as you, hehehe.

love,
dawni

Posted on Nov 5, 2002, 12:43 AM
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am a bad frinds...

by lisa (no login)

i like to hav frind but am bad friend see wat i did with jaime-lee i can not keep friends....am bad person...durti person....

i wich i can have friends.... isorry i bad:(
lisa

Posted on Nov 26, 2002, 9:13 AM
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lisa

by (Login HealingWymn)
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lisa, sweetie...you are not a bad friend, you are a good friend. you have been my friend for a very long time and I love you very much.

Safe hugs,
Terrie

Posted on Nov 28, 2002, 8:45 PM
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tanx yu......i duno no more...NM

by lisa (no login)

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Posted on Nov 29, 2002, 11:12 PM
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halo

by Yasmin (no login)

halo i bed her not afor my big did bed her kani bed her i am a good gerl an i no to be kwiyt
bi yasmin

Posted on Oct 31, 2002, 12:39 AM
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Hi Yasmin!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Hi there! I'm very happy to meet you! And you know what? I have a great message board for lils to talk to other lils and a safe big or two (like me). I would love to see you there! Of course, some of the lils sometimes post here too, so it is certainly ok that you are here. But if you want to go to the other one too, the address is http://www.network54.com/Hide/Forum/45591. Hope to talk to you again!!!

Smiles,
Terrie

Posted on Oct 31, 2002, 2:33 PM
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Terrie

by lisa (no login)

im sory imiss yu r bday...sory..hapi bdai...from all of us ok??? hping yu hav goud dai..
sory for spael..is hard cuz of meds...yu no?
we hom now..i miss yu ....teri no let us go bak ok? plesa..pleas.no let us gooo ...terri pleessssss.....lisa

Posted on Oct 26, 2002, 3:34 PM
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Hi sweetie

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I'm so glad you're home, and thank you for the happy birthday wishes. I missed you while you were gone. I know you don't like it in the hospital...I wish I could make it so you will never go back, but I am not able to control that. I know Paule will do her best to be able to stay home, though, instead of in the hospital. I love you...

Safe hugs,
Terrie

Posted on Oct 27, 2002, 7:21 AM
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hapeye berthdaye terrie :)

by cortnie (no login)

ime soreye ife ime late to rite thise to youe becase ime thinke thate yore berthdaye wase yestrdaye bute nowe we is home agane soe nowe ime sayenge

HAPY BERTHDAYE TERRIE


ande ime hopenge thate youe have a grate daye ande yeere to

thanke you from
cortnie

Posted on Oct 22, 2002, 3:22 PM
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Thank you cortnie!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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It's so nice of you to wish me a happy birthday! Thank you! You are right, it was yesterday, but I don't mind being able to celebrate again today. hehe. How are you doing? I sure have missed you.

Love you lots,
Terrie

Posted on Oct 22, 2002, 11:48 PM
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happybirfdae!!!!!!!!!!

by tonights sky (no login)

Happy birthday terrie!!!!!!!!!!! we didnt' knwo!!!!! but happy happy happy birfdae!!!!!

oves tonights sky

Posted on Oct 23, 2002, 12:15 AM
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Thank you!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Thank you so much for the wonderful birthday wishes! Yayayayya!

Love you,
Terrie

Posted on Oct 23, 2002, 10:22 PM
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Terie

by Anick..friend of Paule (no login)

Just wanted to keeo yu up to date a litle....
She is doing litle better.
And best part is...i spoke to Karol..she is very frighten....She only said one word....«mamma terrie»

I cant find yur email hope is ok to write here

Anick

Posted on Oct 20, 2002, 9:47 PM
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Anick

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Thank you so much for the update! I am glad she is doing a little better. If you see karol again, please tell her that I love her lots. And of course, I love all the rest of them too. My e-mail is above (click on my blue name)...you are welcome to e-mail me anytime.

Terrie

Posted on Oct 21, 2002, 10:22 PM
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Chat

by YesterdaysChild (no login)

any peeps fancy meeting up in chat one nite.....perhaps we could find a day/time to suit everyone.....seems a shame its not being used

Posted on Oct 17, 2002, 4:40 PM
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Hi

by (Login HealingWymn)
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We used to have it set up for Tuesday evenings (late night for you), but I stopped going cuz I got busy, and I assume others stopped as well. I do think it would be great if some of us could use it though....

Terrie

Posted on Oct 17, 2002, 6:07 PM
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hehehe

by YesterdaysChild (no login)

ooo Terrie I don't know what a late night is I go to bed real early.....ok early morning
had to put this in cos its pink.hehehe n real cute

moon n stars love

Tashaxx

Posted on Oct 18, 2002, 5:10 PM
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We's got new name

by Cinders21 (no login)

We's got new name for all of us cos it gets muddled if Cinders21 wannas post. We's gonna bes YesterdaysChild as a whole.....cos thats what we all is eh . We alls pop out soon and says hi 'k
{{{{{{safe hugs}}}}}}}

Posted on Oct 14, 2002, 8:09 PM
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name

by tonight's sky (no login)

we like your name, its very clever!!


love tonight's sky

Posted on Oct 14, 2002, 11:00 PM
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?

by shadow (no login)

Im not sure what I want to write - i just feel like i cant do this alone any more. I am so depressed and so confused. I lose large chunks of time and dont know whats been happening. I am only beginning to accept that I was abused for all my life until i left home. Can someone please tell me if this is normal and what i can do. I am really scared for myself.

Posted on Oct 6, 2002, 6:14 PM
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Shadow?

by Hannah (no login)

hi
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shado
shadow

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hann
hanna
hannah

bye


Posted on Oct 6, 2002, 7:27 PM
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Hi Hannah....

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I'm sorry, but I don't think this is the same Shadow that was your friend....I know you miss her....

Love you,
Terrie

Posted on Oct 7, 2002, 7:35 AM
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hey Shadow

by j-l (no login)

am real sorry yr feelin real depressed an confused an yep i think its is real normal 2 have them feelins.. an bout bein scared 4 u is there any 1 u can call or anythin like a crisis line or somethin if stuff gets real bad..?u dont gotta give ya name or nothin an u can just hang up if it gets real hard 4 ya.....or u can just keep on postin here an try an get some stuff out an we will listen 2 ya....


Posted on Oct 6, 2002, 8:21 PM
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Hi Shadow.

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I know it can be hard accepting the abuse. I think that your feelings and confusion are very normal during this stage of recovery. And losing large chunks of time if very normal for some survivors as well. Have you been to any kind of a doctor who has given you a diagnosis of any kind? Or do you have a therapist? Or are you dealing with all the feelings and such on your own and by coming here and/or talking to friends? Regardless, I am glad you are here. Please feel free to write as often as you want to.

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Oct 7, 2002, 7:39 AM
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hi

by Shadow (no login)

Thankyou Terrie. I have seen my own doctor but he just told me to get it together. He didnt understand. I have my name down on a waiting list to see a therapist but it takes a while they said. So I am mostly just doing it alone. Thats why its so scary. I feel like I am going crazy. I am glad I have found somewhere to write but I am not sure what I can actually say.
Sorry that probably makes no sense.
Shadow

Posted on Oct 8, 2002, 7:42 PM
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Hi Shadow.

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I'm so sorry that your doctor didn't understand. I'm glad you are at least on a waiting list to get a therapist, and hope it doesn't take too long. And it makes perfect sense to be glad to have somewhere to write even though you don't know what to say. Perhaps you can spend some time getting to know us and letting us get to know you, and whenever you are ready to write about more, you can do that.

Glad you're here,
Terrie

Posted on Oct 9, 2002, 6:11 PM
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thanks Terrie

by shadow (no login)

Thank you Terrie. I dont want to sound stupid but how can I get to know you and let you know me? Where do I do that? Should I just write about me? Or what happened to me? Sorry - Im just confused and pathetic
Shadow

Posted on Oct 10, 2002, 6:44 AM
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Hi Shadow..

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Well, we can get to know each other by just writing to each other whenever we want to. As for what to write about...whatever we want is fine (though if it is graphic or about ab*se it would go on Memory Meadow).

Today was a pretty good day for me. I had a productive day at work, and am now home safe. Tonight I'm just gonna sit around and watch tv and read e-mail and chat online. And how was your day?

Terrie

Posted on Oct 10, 2002, 5:33 PM
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hi

by shadow (no login)

Hi Terrie thanks for your reply. I havent done much today - I am just hiding at home. I am finding even simple things really hard today - sorry.

Posted on Oct 11, 2002, 7:20 PM
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Shadow

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Am wondering how you are doing today. I'm doing ok. Went today and picked out new carpet for the living room. I can hardly wait to get it in! hehe Will have to do lots of cleaning in the meantime. And hopefully we will be done painting by then too. Hope you are doing well.

Terrie

Posted on Oct 15, 2002, 9:58 PM
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:(

by Shadow (no login)

thanks for the message Terrie. Im sorry im not doing well at all at the moment but i dont think this is the right place to talk about it.
Could u tell me how to get into chat also - each time i try i just get a message error 101
hope u get everything done before your carpet arrives
shadow

Posted on Oct 16, 2002, 11:24 PM
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Hi Shadow

by (Login HealingWymn)
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You are welcome to e-mail me if you want to talk about it. Also, the Parachat is a Java room, so if you are not java enabaled, it won't work. If you are, you click on it and wait, and then put in your name and connect. By they way, it is rarely used. The Bravenet HumanClick (to talk to me when I am online) just involves clicking on it, I think, and then chatting when I answer (some computers do have a hard time connecting, I have heard.). In any case, I'm here for you.

Peace,
Terrie

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TO JOANNE

by watcher (no login)

Will you please come back to this forum? At least until maybe we could get emails of each other? I wish I could tqlk to you.

Posted on Oct 6, 2002, 12:43 PM
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Hi Watcher.

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I know you are interested in talking to Joann, and I wanted to say that if she doesn't come back (or even if she does), you are welcome to talk to me. I am a survivor, but I have also had 6 years of education in psychology and counseling, and have worked in the mental health community for about 13 years. I would be very glad to be able to talk with you, if you want.

Peace,
Terrie

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by watcher (no login)

I was really hoping to talk to JoAnne.

Posted on Oct 8, 2002, 6:52 AM
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we are home

by lisa (no login)

and hapi be home but we are all...skard ...and system is all over the place...diorganiz an some hiding some taking comand an not obeing ..an is skary...too many meds...and some take other take more...!!!! tired ...fed up..he keep caling...here...so a male frind of Anick stayin to answer phone....but ...skard..a;; tikme not good place to be...at least the kids are her...safe with us...
are we saf tho???

lisa

Posted on Sep 23, 2002, 11:53 PM
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yehaaaaa

by Jamie-lee (no login)

am glad yr all happy 2 be home but am sorry u all r scared an tired an fed up...am real sorry 2 that he keeps on calling but glad u dont gotta talk 2 him an that anicks friends answerin the phone 4 ya's.... i hope he can leave ya's alone so u can get some peace an hope u all can feel better some soon....
bye 4 now.....Jamie-lee

Posted on Sep 24, 2002, 4:58 AM
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{{{{{{{{{{lisa and all}}}}}}}}}}}

by (Login HealingWymn)
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I'm so glad you are not in the h*sp. anymore. I know that is a hard place to be for at least some of y'all. I'm really sorry that he keeps calling though. It is very nice of Anick's friend to stay and answer the phone. Can the friend also help protect y'all? And how long can he stay? Unfortunately, it might be time for y'all to think about moving where the h can't find you.....it's sad that anyone would have to hide to be safe, though, and so unfair. In any case, please know that I'm thinking about you and loving you.

Safe hugs,
Terre

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terrieeee

by lisaaaa (no login)

(((((((terriee)))))))

dunno how long he stay i no tak tu him,..bigs tak tu him not us...nonononooo
lisa

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{{{{{{{{{{{lisa}}}}}}}}}}}

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Loving you sweetie....

Posted on Sep 24, 2002, 7:59 PM
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2 lisa

by Jamie-lee (no login)

i no u cant not read this right now but just got 2 thinkin about ya an did wanna say that an i hope yr doin ok an i hope all stuffs goin ok 4 ya...an thats all i did wanna say so bye 4 now...

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Re: 2 lisa

by Anonymous (no login)

hi jaimie
ty for tinking bout me....
i tlk tu you soopn

Posted on Sep 23, 2002, 11:46 PM
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tats lisa...np

by lisa (no login)

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Posted on Sep 23, 2002, 11:50 PM
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yw

by Jamie-lee (no login)

an talk 2 u soon 2..can u plz email some time when eva u got some time so i can get yr email back again cause i did lose it an this is me last time im postin cause i desided its better 4 me if i dont not post here no more but if i got yr email addy again i can write an say hi an see how u doin some time ok...
bye.......

Posted on Sep 24, 2002, 5:13 AM
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For Terrie and friends

by Paule and the Gang (no login)

She asked to make a post...

She is doing somewhat better.She needs to be in the hospital for a while still. She cant wait to get out and get back on the puter.
She misses her friend,and hope she be back soon.
She will try to call yu Terrie.
She(they) misses her friends....
jaime-lee.....lisa says HI

Anick

Posted on Sep 12, 2002, 10:05 PM
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hey

by Jamie-lee (no login)

am not full on sure whos this is from or whos in the hospital but who eva it is i hope shes feelin better real soon an can get outta the hospital real fast an back on the puter like she wants 2... an tell lisa i say hi back 2 her...



Posted on Sep 13, 2002, 4:23 AM
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Thank you

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Thank you so much for the update. If she does not manager to get me by phone, please let her know that I am thinking about her (them) and send her (them) my love.

Safe hugs for her (them),
Terrie

Posted on Sep 13, 2002, 7:36 AM
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Hi Paule and Sandra

by Terry (no login)

It made me sad to hear that you are in hospital. I know that hospitals make you very scared. I truly hope that you are doing well and are being looked after with all the kindness and love that you deserve.

Much love

Terry

Posted on Sep 15, 2002, 2:00 AM
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hi miss Terry

by lisa (no login)

I told Sandra yur message...
But sandra not in good space now....she was happy c yur bak....
She says HI ,hope yur doing ok...
Lisa

Posted on Sep 23, 2002, 11:48 PM
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a kinda rude or embaressin question

by J-l (no login)

did or do anyone eva feel afraid or not full on like afraid but just a bit uncomfortable maybe when they be with guys or girls they like in a ways like well u no together kinda thing...like is it normal 2 like wanna do it but 2 not wanna 2 an not feel same as the other person when yr doin it... an any one no how 2 get over it an be normal like the person ya with an able 2 do the right stuff with not feelin wierd...i no this dont make much sense but i cant not full on say this stuff right but like i no most peeps here are married or with some one so thought i will ask any ways....

Posted on Sep 8, 2002, 12:05 AM
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Good Question!

by (Login HealingWymn)
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For me, personally, I still have a very hard time being with anyone. I tend to feel very vulnerable and sometimes get frightened easily or feel used even when I know that is not the case. How to get over it? I wish I knew...haven't managed that one yet. That is the one big issue still facing me. Sometimes I can be ok with it, but definately not very often. I think that through therapy we can learn to feel in charge of our own bodies, and to know that the choice is ours, and to not associate the consensual sex with the abuse we suffered. It requires some hard work though, cuz it means we have to change some of the beliefs we were taught deep down inside of us...even though we might know intellectually that one thing is true, deep down our bodies still believe another thing instead. At least mine does.... Sorry if this isn't much help, but at least you can know that you are not alone with this.

Love ya,
Terrie

Posted on Sep 9, 2002, 9:41 AM
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ty

by j-l (no login)

ya dont not gotta say sorry cause u no what ya said was real helpful an yup is good 2 no i aint the only one who feels them ways i do so thanx heaps k...u make lotsa sense with everythin u say u no an am glad we did met..
an i luv ya.....from Jamie-lee

Posted on Sep 9, 2002, 10:16 AM
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I should read the responses before I post

by Mary (no login)

Yours sounds much better than mine.

Posted on Sep 10, 2002, 10:12 AM
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Mary

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Your response sounds just fine, and by getting two of us saying basically the same thing, it reaffirms what we are saying, and I think that is wonderful! Thanks for speaking up!

Terrie

Posted on Sep 11, 2002, 9:58 PM
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:0 )

by Mary (no login)

Hi, Jamie-Lee. Yes, I think we've all felt that way, if not some who still do. It's hard and it's good that you know that you are feeling this. Stay on your path to healing and it will be one more milestone you have overcome. It's ok to feel that way. And, you also have to make sure you have feelings for the person you are with. It should be out of love, not need.

peace,
Mary

Posted on Sep 10, 2002, 10:11 AM
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ty Mary

by j-l (no login)

what ya did say made lotsa sense so thnx heaps aye....
later....

Posted on Sep 12, 2002, 6:18 AM
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WOW

by (no login)

QUICK DENIAL RESPONSE Y'ALL GOT. I ONLY SPEAK THE TRUTH

Posted on Sep 7, 2002, 6:27 PM
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dont reckon i no ya but

by Jamie-lee (no login)

glad ya only speak the truth......good 4 u


Posted on Sep 7, 2002, 7:37 PM
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You can call it...

by (Login HealingWymn)
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You can call it a quick denial response if you want, but we know our truth, and we don't need for you to believe us because we know that not everyone will. It's sad that some of you can't see what we have been through, but we won't let your beliefs interfere with our recovery, because we are stronger than that today. I will continue to delete any innappropriate posts here, because I believe in protecting myself and the others here from harmful statements, even though we know what the truth is despite your beliefs. I hope that one day God will open your eyes that you may see the truth of our history and honor our journey of recovery, but if not, that is your life and we need not let it affect us.

Peace be with you,
Terrie

Posted on Sep 9, 2002, 9:46 AM
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WOW alright.....

by someone who doubt any1 would wanna no ya (no login)

ok i aint as smart as terrie an didnt not get ya post like she did so now i wanna say i take me post 2 ya right back...an still am kinda confused bout who ya was talkin 2 but if u was talkin 2 all of us u no what i wish i was in denial cause least i could snap outta that...hope u neva gotta live mine or no one elses lifes who come here an if ya do already then u should no better an u seriously need 2 see a shrink...
J-l


Posted on Sep 9, 2002, 10:24 AM
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?

by Mary (no login)

Not real sure about that one sentence comment (which obviously reflects the intelligence), but obviously someone's bored and has WAY too much time on their hands.

Posted on Sep 10, 2002, 10:06 AM
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Hi Mary

by (Login HealingWymn)
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This person had written a previous note stating that there is no such thing as sexual abuse....I deleted it.

Hope this clears up your confusion.

How have you been?????

Terrie

Posted on Sep 10, 2002, 8:18 PM
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Oh, ok..

by (no login)

now I get it. I haven't been here for a while.

I've been good. Very busy. Been enjoying my "freedom" from my mother. I feel like a whole new person now that I tackled that and sent that letter to my brother. It's a good feeling. I don't speak to my mother much anymore, but I figure that's her loss. She'll deal with it her way, right? So, it's nice. I never, in my wildest dreams, thought that I could ever be free from those chains. It has its downfalls, but nothing near as bad as the feeling I had before. That of her not understanding and just wishing she'd take me under her wing, so to speak, and tell me it's ok. Which is something she's never done. And I see she probably never will because she only thinks of herself and how it effects her. I know that's more than you wanted to know. Sorry.

How have you been doing? Anything new?

Posted on Sep 11, 2002, 9:04 AM
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Hi Mary

by (Login HealingWymn)
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Not much new here. I'm so glad to hear that you are doing so wel and am enjoying your freedom, because that's exactly what it is when you break free of the bondage of a dysfunctional relationship. Thank you so much for sharing with me.

Smiles and peace,
Terrie

Posted on Sep 11, 2002, 9:56 PM
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