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JJ

by Terry (no login)

How did it go??? Are you still on your feet or tucked up in bed recovering???

Just thinking of you and hoping you are doing ok.

love

Terry

Posted on Apr 19, 2001, 9:57 PM
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HAHAHAHAHA!!

by JJ (no login)

Me stay in bed!!! Good one!

Lets just say I'm very glad school has resumed.... Things are a lot quieter here now.

You doing anything interesting this weekend? Starting to think about the garden here now that the frost is out of the ground. I put in some bulbs already.

JJ

Posted on Apr 20, 2001, 9:47 PM
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Hi Sandra

by Terry (no login)

I bet you thought I had left town

but I havent, I left you a post the other day but the computer must have eaten it hehe because it aint here now.

How are you my friend, are those with you doing ok or are things still really difficult? I can imagine that they might be.

I have had an ok week, my children are on holiday from school so we have just been hanging out together. We went to playground the otherday which was nice. I've just decided right this minute that I want to go and feed some ducks at the park, I love ducks quack quack hehe Im in a silly mood today and its fun.

((((((Sandra))))))

take care

Terry

Posted on Apr 19, 2001, 9:55 PM
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Terry

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am happy to see your having a good time..is hard here..and bad memories are there,i want them to go away..afraid to sleep but i take care of the littles so it keep me buzy,they have a hard time accepting the death..even if it is for the best.

have a good week end,i did not think your gone...but busy

sandra

Posted on Apr 21, 2001, 6:31 PM
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Hi Sandra

by Terry (no login)

I thought things might be hard for you and after the death I think they might be for a while. You are doing so well, looking after the littles as well as coping with the memories, it must take up so much of your energy. Can any one else inside help? If they can you could get a little rest and I imagine you could do with a break. I am concerned about you very much.

Unfortunately we didn't get to go feed the ducks but we still had a nice weekend.

Terry

Posted on Apr 22, 2001, 7:51 AM
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Sandra

by Terry (no login)

If you ever want to email me to talk about the memories or anything at all you can get my email address from Terrie.

Take care my special friend

Terry

Posted on Apr 22, 2001, 8:11 AM
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To everybody, I had an idea

by (no login)

My idea was this:

Because I know so many people who have either been hurt on the internet or had problems, I thought it might be a good idea to have a "group therapy" email group. It seemed to me when I talked to other people who had not had this experience in their internet connections, they did not understand and I still felt frustrated and lonely about it. So the idea would have been to have a small group and the email would all have gone through an intern or psych student so that we could have a totally impartial moderator and to ensure safety in the fact that nothing could come through to your email on this subject unless it came directly from the moderator who would have been able to first screen out anything harmful. This was so people could feel safe about opening that email. I was thinking that it would be good to have an email just for this group only so that regular emails would not be openly available unless one later cared to share them, again promoting a feeling of safety.

It was not to be a place for gossip or maligning any of the sources of our dicomfort, but a chance to share with others the feelings and experiences of that pain and the end goal was to find some healing and peace. Perhaps after the initial work we would have been able to continue on to current safety issues on internet use. But the ultimate goal would have been to be able to feel free and be without fear while conversing with others by email. Using email would ensure the size and the members of the group, unlike a public or private posting site where it might have been possible for anyone outside the group to discover it and post there or gather our email addys. It was to be a chance to rediscover the gentle caring relationships and support that are so missed.

I know that we have had a terrible time for the last two years. Seems hard to trust anyone at all any more. This would have been a step on our parts to develop some new, and reinforce some old, friendships. Like most anyone with DID, we have felt alone in this world, have seen way to much violence and fighting, and wish to be part of friendships with others of our "peers", those with DID who can accept us for who we are.

So FWIW, that was the idea I had. If you are curious, my email is available for that. I have posted this publicly so that it will be clear to anyone exactly what the idea was and it's only purpose, to promote friendships and safe feelings, and to pursue healing for anyone involved.

Jenna

Posted on Apr 19, 2001, 7:18 AM
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I just noticed something

by Jenna again (no login)

Because I have DID and most of my friends from the internet also have it, it seems, after reading the last paragraphs, that this group would be exclusive to those with DID. But the main criteria for group membership would have been primarily that a person had experienced problems on the internet and wished to persue healing and peace. That the person is of many minds or mono-minded would not matter. We all need support and kindness.

Posted on Apr 19, 2001, 7:47 AM
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I think this is a good idea

by scaredy cat (no login)

because sometimes Im scared to open my email. Sometimes Im even scared to go to my email place. Then if I go, there might be something nice there. But there might be something Im scared to open. If I knew that somebody like a T had read it first and was telling me its ok then I wouldnt be scared to open it.

Posted on Apr 19, 2001, 12:49 PM
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Terrie

by Jenna (no login)

Can you check your email this morning?

Posted on Apr 19, 2001, 6:20 AM
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Forum Owner

I have deleted several strings from a couple of my friends cuz I can't stand to see my friends fighting with each other. I don't need y'all to like each other, but please don't fight on my boards. You are each being requested not to post to the other so as to discontue this disagreement.

Love you all,
Terrie

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Posted on Apr 18, 2001, 6:11 PM
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Thanks Terrie

by Jenna (no login)

I will do better.

Jenna

Posted on Apr 18, 2001, 9:53 PM
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thanks

by Emma (no login)

Thank you for your replies. I'm sorry I didn't reply earlier but it's getting harder to visit the site as I only have the internet at work at the moment. I've come up with thi sproject which seems to be helping me quite a lot. I'm putting together a minidisc of songs which reflect how I truly feel in a timeline order, so starting from how I felt all those years ago to how I feel now. It is the safest but most honest way I could come up with to express myself, even if no one else hears it as long as I am at the stage where I am willing to except the stages I went and am going through. It definitely seems to help me, I only work on it when it feels ok but it's a kind of self therapy.

I hope that all made some kind of sense, hopefully I'll be back soon and I'm still thinking of everyone else out there. I hope you manage to get some strength and hope as well as supplying it Terrie.

Posted on Apr 18, 2001, 7:12 AM
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Emma

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Wow...that's a wonderful idea of putting the songs in order like that. I'm so glad you thought of that and that it helps you. You are so creative to think of that. I hope to see you again soon.

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 18, 2001, 7:17 AM
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we can celebrate

by (no login)

She is dead...she wont hurt anyone anymore...Lets throw a party and have fun..
And maybe we can be free..of pain...we have to work on our big now..but is ok..
Am so tired of pain and fears.....is about time...

LETS ALL PARTY

LUC

Posted on Apr 13, 2001, 9:58 PM
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hi Luc

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I'm so glad she can't hurt anyone anymore. You all never deserved to be hurt.

Terrie

Posted on Apr 14, 2001, 10:51 AM
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am glad

by (no login)

you dont think i am cold..and have no heart..like a lot of people are saying about us...but i dont care...want to have fun..but it seems am the only one here who want to..
Sometime i get so angry..and upset...i feel rage..and is hard to control...sometime i hit and hurt...
like i was...even if i dont want to..

Luc

Posted on Apr 14, 2001, 9:01 PM
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Hi luc

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It's ok to get angry sometimes...there is nothing wrong with having feelings. Maybe you could try some new ways to try to let it out. On the angry board me and cortnie gave some good ideas to Anastacia...maybe you could go read those ideas and maybe some of them would work for you. I'm here if you want to talk.

Terrie

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 10:01 AM
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today is a real bad day

by (no login)

is familly day..is day where all gather and have fun and enjoy..
is not happening with us..we r so alone..dont know why were still here..what is the purpose??...which we could dissapear...

luc

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 6:58 PM
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Hi luc

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So sorry it's been a bad day. I hope tomorrow is much better. I'm here for you.

Terrie

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 8:41 PM
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Hi Luc

by Terry (no login)

You deserve to be free of the pain and fear. I hope you are doing ok and that your big is doing ok too.

Terry

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 7:15 AM
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look above...

by (no login)

we are not so good...
sorry...am soooo angry today..is bad..is hurting

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 7:00 PM
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Terry..hi new friend..

by (no login)

I get what you say.If I dont take a chance,I'll never know?
Am glad your my friend..Am trying to hang in there...still have memories...
we r to have easter whit the familly..egss hunt and stuff...

you?any plans for easter?

Sandra

Posted on Apr 13, 2001, 9:47 PM
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Hi Sandra

by Terry (no login)

I'm so glad you are hanging in there, I know its hard. We had a family breakfast (its Easter day here now). My Mum, my sister and her ex partner, my husband and our three kids, it was nice. I wasn't much wanting to go but I had a nice time when we were there. My kids had a big egg hunt and that was fun. The rest of the day I spent in bed cuddled up with my teddy, we have some bad memories at easter so some of my inside littles were a bit scared so it was important that we had some cuddly time

Can I send you a little cuddle?

Terry

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 7:06 AM
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Sandra, I forgot to tell you

by Terry (no login)

that I may not get to be online tomorrow but I'll be back Tuesday.

Keeping you in my heart

Terry

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 7:09 AM
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we had eggs hunt too..

by (no login)

and some chocolate..is is a hard day..familly and all..we have no..anyway am glad oyu enjoye your day..and hope yu sleep well..

happy easter

sandra

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it is over

by (no login)

she is dead...at 1145...
we are alone here in house..dont know what to do,how to feel..not sure if we have not dream all the bad things..and we lied to get attention as other says..(outside)

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 11:40 AM
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i don't think

by alex (no login)

that you lied to get attention. i believe whatever you have to say. i'm sorry about your loss.

sitting with you, listening.
alex

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 12:48 PM
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thanx

by (no login)

am having hard time..but thanx..to sit with me

lucie

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 7:24 PM
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Hi Lucie

by Terry (no login)

I am so sorry things are so difficult for you at this time. I am sure you have not made up the bad things or told lies to get attention. Unfortunately some people just don't want to hear the truth but your friends here will always listen to you.

Have you got a safe outside person that you can spend some time with today? Someone that can support you all and give you comfort.

I can't be with you in person but I am with you in thought.

Terry

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 7:55 PM
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sad

by (no login)

no..have no outside pple..i stay in..was not in mood for talking...but i feel not so good..

lucie

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 11:43 PM
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Hi Lucie

by Terry (no login)

I am sorry you don't feel so good, can I sit with you and keep you company, quietly, until you feel a little better?

gentle hugs ((((((Lucie))))))

Terry

Posted on Apr 13, 2001, 7:37 PM
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Lucie

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I am sad for your loss, but am also positive that you did not make any of it up. I know this is a hard time with lots of mixed feelings. Please know that you are in my heart and that I am close in thought.

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 13, 2001, 7:41 AM
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thank you everyone..

by (no login)

for your support...we are just lost..i guess..an our big..is well..not doing so good..so have to be there for her..take her place..wish shed come back tho

lucie

Posted on Apr 13, 2001, 3:06 PM
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Terrie

by Terry (no login)

Hi friend, How are things with you? Any plans for the Easter weekend? I am working so no great plans but will be catching up with my Mum and sister for breaky Easter morning. That is after the great Easter hunt!!

love to you

Terry

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 5:49 AM
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Hi there!

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No big plans for me either. Am working today (Good Friday). Have practice for my women's group tomorrow and am also letting a friend of a friend hang out with me (my friend will be at work and her friend is in town visiting). Sunday I will go to ch*rch, but that's it. Hope you have fun with your Easter Hunt and breaky (is that breakfast?).

Love you lots,
Terrie

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Hi Hon

by Terry (no login)

Yep breaky is breakfast, I am working tonight (Sat) and tomorrow night so need to sleep during Easter day. That's why we are catching up with the family for breakfast and then I can come home and go to bed. My sweet Mary would like to go to ch*rch but I don't think I'm up to it, I thought I would give her some time in the day to light a candle and worship at home. Can I ask about your womens group? What are you practicing?

Take care and know that I hold you close to me at all times.

Love

Terry

Posted on Apr 13, 2001, 7:34 PM
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Hi hon

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I think giving Mary some time to light a candle and worship at home is a wonderful idea....you are so thoughtful. As for my women's group...it's a group of lesbians who put on lip-synching variety shows to raise money for charity. We usually do about 20 songs per show. Our next show is in June, but we have to start practicing early for the harder numbers...this time we are doing Thriller by Micheal Jackson, so we all need to practice lots for that.

Holding you close to me,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 14, 2001, 10:54 AM
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You amaze me

by Terry (no login)

How wonderful your group sounds, it must be a lot of fun despite the hard work. How do you find the time???

I would be lost without you in my life, Thankyou for being here

Terry

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 7:11 AM
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Terry

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I am not only glad to be in your life, I am grateful to have you in mine as well. You hold a very special place in my heart! (And if you e-mail me your phone number, I will ring you on the telephone some time...but even cheaper than that is if you go to www.phonefree.com and download that, we can talk voice on the puter for free.) In any case, I love you lots!

Hope you are doing well today,
Love,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 15, 2001, 2:26 PM
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Flute

by Terry (no login)

Wanted to say hi and see how you are going. Have things settled down a bit or not? I'm keeping you in my thoughts.

Terry

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 5:46 AM
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Sandra

by Terry (no login)

Hi, I just wanted to let you know that I have been thinking about you and to tell you that nothing you did was bad. You are a brave girl that has been through so much, the people that hurt you were the bad ones. I truly hope that you are feeling a little better.

Terry

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terry

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we went to see her mom...was bad..why they go..i saw her..now feel bad..was bad idea..bad memories..i can t belive this person hurt me..she look so..peacfll and little..and we were afraid of her?? how can tis be? i am not sure things happened now..maybe it was all a bad dream...and this person did not hurt...and aam a bad person telling lies and is why we have no famillis anymore,and they are right i deserve it all..now we deserv to be alone..and this man who hit us again is ok..cause were bad and deserve to be punish for the pain we cause...

thanx for thinking about me...dont deserve to have friends...is not safe for you am not good for you
sandra

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 10:20 AM
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Hi Sandra

by Terry (no login)

I can hear that it was real hard for you to go to the hospital and see the Mom. Why did they go.... I'm not sure there could be lots of reasons. I know that for some people it is very important to go and see a parent that is dying to say goodbye, even if that parent has been someone that has hurt them.

It was confusing to see her looking peacful and small wasnt it. That happens when we get older the people that use to hurt us look smaller when we see them with our eyes because we know we can keep ourselves safe and they can't hurt us anymore.

Sweetheart, I want you to know that I don't, not for one second, think you made anything up. I don't believe that you told any lies or that you caused anyone any pain or hurt. I believe that you are a sweet girl that has been hurt by people that were meant to love you and care for you and now you deserve to have all the friends you want.

I like to think we can be friends, it is very good for me to have friends who understand about being hurt and not believed.

Keeping you close to my heart

Terry

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friends?

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you realy want to be friends withme??..your taking a chance...
we can try..to be friends..maybe it will help you than is ok..if i help you feel better.

sandra

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 11:47 PM
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Sandra, I sure do want to be your friend :)

by Terry (no login)

Sandra everyone takes a chance when they make a new friend but it is a chance worth taking. If we didn't talk or write to each other then we wouldn't get to have people to share our feelings and our lives with. It is very hard way to live keeping everything tight inside us. And it's lonely too.

Sweetheart I want you to remember though that being friends is not about making me feel better its about us helping each other.

I hope you are doing ok today. I am so glad we can try and be friends. It made me smile lots

Terry

Posted on Apr 13, 2001, 7:56 PM
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Terry, responding up here

by JJ (no login)

We are CRAMMED into our two cabins, lucky we have 10 acres. The boys are 15,16,18,19,21. The 21 has a wife, 2yr old and 6 month old sons. Obviously they have the guest cabin. Did I forget to mention our totally nuts 3 yr old yellow lab? This place is rockin and rollin! I will need some serious quiet time this coming week.

Too bad the weather is crummy. Been raining and a little snow mixed in for good measure on and off, so no fishing this time.

JJ

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 5:41 AM
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Oh JJ....

by Terry (no login)

What a week!! Here was I thinking rest and relaxation when it is indeed rockin and rollin!! Though I think I see a smile on your face through all the maddness

I love the sound of your totally nuts lab I bet she/he is having a great time following all the guys around and no doubt being spoilt rotten.

You will be exhausted when the week is over but this "adventure " will leave you with lots of lovely memories.

Have fun

Terry

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 7:38 PM
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Back after some time

by Emma (no login)

I've been away for some time as things got too bad and I needed to retreat desperately. Things are finally starting to work out now and I feel a lot more calm within myself and stronger. I am finally building a relationship with my family, despite my parents current divorce, and am starting to go out a bit now too. I'm still only taking a day at a time but so far so good. Thank you for all the support I have received, it's reassuring to know I'm not alone and I wasn't going mad.

Posted on Apr 11, 2001, 3:55 PM
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Hi Emma!

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It's so good to see you, and especially to hear that you are doing a bit better. I'm so glad you are feeling stronger and are building a relationship with your family. And are you having fun going out a bit? Please know that you are in my thoughts!

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 11, 2001, 5:25 PM
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Hi Emma

by Terry (no login)

Its so good to hear that you are doing well and rest assured you were never going mad. Enjoy the calm and keep well.

love

Terry

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 5:32 AM
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she is finally dying

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our big's mother..she is and we dont know what to be..happy or sad..some are so glad..they want to go see her in hospital..she has less than a day to live..some are so happy...i dont know anymore...
sorry to complain..

lucie

Posted on Apr 11, 2001, 1:32 PM
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Hi lucie

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No need to be sorry for saying or feeling anything. I can understand the mixed feelings, and that is perfectly normal. There is nothing wrong with feeling any feelings, be they happy, sad, mad, scared, or indifferent. You re all entitled to your feelings. Let me know if I can help in any way.

Peace,
Terrie

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Hi Lucie

by Terry (no login)

We haven't meet before (I am a different Terry from the Terrie that runs the board) but I just wanted to say hello and let you know that I can hear how hard things are for you right now. You are doing a great job and you are not complaining but sharing and that is great.

take care

Terry

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am new ,and am so lost, i need help..

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I feel like i was push in a situation i did not want.I was not ready to do this,is not my place.I sorta took over this body,i had no choice.I talk to outside people for the first time last week,and am still not comfotable.Our big is hidding inside and not coming out much anymore.So i am,i am not sure what...but i dont want to do this...can someone help?
is this ok?..is this normal?

HELP
Lucie

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 5:13 PM
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Hi Lucie

by (no login)

I'm glad to meet you. I think what you are feeling is perfectly normal under the circumstances. I can only imagine how overwhelmed you probably feel. In any case, I want you to know that you are welcome to post here anytime, or to send me e-mail, and I want you to know you have my support. I'm not sure what I an do other than be a shoulder to lean on, but at least that's something. Let me know if there is anything I can do for you.

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 6:01 PM
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terrie

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thanx for your reply.Can you tell me if it will be like that for life?i mean she will come out?it is overwelming

lucie

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 9:33 PM
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Hi lucie

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I'm afraid I can't tell what your big will do...if she will come out or if she will stay hiding. It really varies from person to person. I think the chances of her coming out will be better if you can all get to a safe place where no one is getting hurt. But I know that is hard to do for many reasons. I'm so sorry this is so overwhelming to you. Can I ask how old you are? Is there anything I can do to help support you?

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 11, 2001, 5:21 PM
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terrie

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things are happening...in home.. i am 24 yrs old...i am not sure if i do my job right,
dont think were gona go to a safe place like you say.i will have to keep us all safe..the best i can

lucie

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lucie

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I am sure you are doing your job the very best you can. I know it is hard when things are not safe in the home. Please remember you have support here, so you are not alone. Let me know if there is anything I can do to help you.

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 7:39 AM
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terrie andd terry

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thanx for your words..it means a lot...is sure confused time here...a lot of anger and sadness and confusion..just hope it get better soon..
we dont know how to...*work together*..you know..our big has not come out for days..am worried..cant get her out..

lucie

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 10:24 AM
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hi lucie

by jonah (no login)

i am jonah an 9 an a boy. an i am a friend of lisa an marie. an my alex is friends with sandra. you have a very nice group there. i am knowing that all things can be scary. an sometimes just being on the outside can be scarier than anything. but we are safe people here. terrie is ssssooooo cool an she is loving of us all.

it is good of you to come here and say hello. an know what? you are normal.
caring bout you
an waving to marie an lisa an sandra,
jonah

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 7:51 PM
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hi jonah

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thanx for your words.it is nice to meet you

lucie

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 9:35 PM
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Its Been Awhile Since Ive Posted

by Robin (no login)

Hi, to everyone!!! Its been awhile since Ive been able to come here to post,I know that one of my littles have posted in the other forum a few times.I just havnt had it in me to come back.We have been going through somewhat of a crisis with so many flashbacks and memories.We lost the will to go on for awhile, but we are still fighting.Sometimes it seems the sadness and fear are to much to take.We wantto go on but we need to be free of so much pain. Just thought Id let you all know were weve been. We are in much need of support and strenth to carry us through this hard time.
thanks for listening,
Robin

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 1:59 AM
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hi robin

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I dont think we know each other..but i am sandra(lisa is my little sister)..i am sorry to see your having trouble with flashbacks and stuff,but i understand you.I am kinda glad you can come here and say it and ask for help..i am having them too,and dont know that to do..so dont know what to tell you except maybe we can help and support each other? and be strong togheter??

bye for now sandra

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 1:30 PM
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Hi Robin

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It's good to see you again! I'm sorry you are having such a rough time...wish I could make it go away for you. But I can be here for you and support you and remind you that you are not alone. You are a lot stronger than you feel, and whatever strength you are lacking, we can send over to you. Hope to hear from you again soon.

Peace,
Terrie

Posted on Apr 10, 2001, 6:30 PM
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Hi Robin

by Terry (no login)

Just want to say hello and encourage you to keep on going. I sure know how tough it all can be at times, the pain is so incredibly overwhelming.

Take care, you can do it, the days will get better even if they are few and far between for a while. It will get better.

Terry

Posted on Apr 12, 2001, 5:42 AM
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flute do

by angelisse with wings (no login)

banshee be wit you oh i hopin so i mis banshee lots if she do be wit you can you tel her i do be sayin hi to her and i mis her

angelisse

Posted on Apr 9, 2001, 4:41 PM
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Feeling so sad I could cry

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Hi all, I feel so lost and alone. Like I am wandering and I can't find my way home. There has been so much loss and upheaval lately. I am having trouble reaching out consistently. Peace, Flute

Posted on Apr 8, 2001, 10:47 PM
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it's okay

by Alex (no login)

i am relatively new here, but wanted to say hello. are you the bigs of banshee? it's hard sometimes to keep up with who is who, so forgive me if i'm wrong. i know that my jonah and she are friends.

we are also lost, but looks as if you and i have found each other.

offering friendship if you want,
Alex

Posted on Apr 8, 2001, 10:52 PM
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Hi Flute

by Terry (no login)

Sorry to hear that you are feeling so lost, its a horrid way to be. Its hard to reach out, I know, but you are doing just great. Take care of you and I hope you days are happier soon.

Terry

Posted on Apr 9, 2001, 5:36 AM
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Hey Terry!

by jigsaw (no login)

Where are ya these days? Miss seeing ya here.

JJ

Posted on Apr 7, 2001, 9:54 PM
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Hey JJ

by Terry (no login)

I'm still here, we took a little time out because we were having a pretty hard time of things but just n0ow all is ok. Which is just wonderfu, I had forgotten that sky could actually be blue, its been looking kinda grey around here and with no sign of rain hehehe.

How is life with you

take care

Terry

Posted on Apr 9, 2001, 5:34 AM
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Hi Terry

by JJ (no login)

Well spring is FINALLY here, it has been a very loooong cold snowy winter. We started cleaning up the yard yesterday, getting ready for the garden. Tomorrow we leave for our cabin up north for a week. Small cabin, lots of teen age boys.... hmmmm, I'll have to let you know how THAT one goes. But it is beautiful there, the dog loves running loose, and many times I have taken a whole week to go ALONE there, so peaceful.

Gotta get moving, have T today and lots of errands to run.

JJ

hi to Tery it is me Eliza byby

Posted on Apr 9, 2001, 6:52 AM
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Sounds wonderful ..... teenage boys and all :)

by Anonymous (no login)

Hi JJ,
It would be wonderful to have a place to escape to alone occassionally. I hope you are having (or had, if you are reading this when you get back) a great week. How many boys and how old? My son had two guests for dinner last night, the boys are 13 - 14 yrs and are nice boys with a great sense of humour but boy can they make some noise!!

Take care

Terry

Hi Eliza, It's so wonderful to hear from you. I hope you have lots of fun at the cabin.

love Terrry

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