Hi,
I posted here back in 2002. I had left my husband for the third time and was very confused. Well I went back after 4 months and stayed untill March 2004. He made all kinds of promises. They only lasted a month. I was advised over and over not to go back but I felt I had to give it one more try. Well when things got to the point that I was completly numb and unable to feel or function I realized I needed to get out for good. I made up my mind that I was getting a divorce and there was no turning back. I am proud to say that this week I will sign the divorce papers. In my state you have to be seperated for 6 months to get one. The end is finally here. My ex-husband has tried every thing possible to make my life miserable. I dont believe he wants me back. I think he just wants to make me miserable. He came to my work place which is a church and sat and stared me down the whole service. He did the same to those he thought have helped me in my endevore. He also wrote a horrible letter anonomously to try to get me fired. The only thing is he still can make me feel like im going crazy. even though I know he wrote the letter when confronted he made it seem as though he was the last person on earth to possibly write it. UGH.... I try not to talk to him if I can help it. I try to remember I dont have to live in his reality. There is another reality that is real.Hope that makes sense.
One question. My husband was emotionaly and verbally abusive. He threatened to hit me and would push me or pinch me but never hit me. Now that the divorce is final and I see his behavior escalting do you know if this type of man could snap and do something physical to hurt me. I am getting a little concerned in this area. He knows I am not changing my mind now. He knows its not an option for me. Well I guess that is long enough.
For Now..
Tulip