but got pg naturally after being told I was in meno and that using my own eggs would be impossible. I think I actually was in early meno actually - I'd been having hot flashes and night sweats, periods were lighter and shorter. Never made it as far as trying stims or IUI or IVF; did lots of acupuncture and herbs and supplements, plus changed my diet (no dairy, alcohol, caffeine) and got pg about 4 months after the doomsday diagnosis. I'm now 33 weeks with a healthy baby boy. Like Sabrina said, the doctors just don't know everything. The natural way worked for me; maybe you should give it a shot.