For you pessimistic (old thinking) farts who condem older men hooking up with younger women, I suggest you read some of Don Steele's books on the topic

http://www.steelballs.com/default.htm

He and those who follow his advice have no problem dating younger women (much younger) in the US. One thing is clear, if you act and think old, then you won't keep a young wife, or find younger women to date. Two of the happiest Russian/American marriages I know of, involve about 30 years difference in age. But these guy don't act or think old.

Can a marriage between an old guy and a young lady end in disaster? Of course! As can 50% of all marriages. Unfortunately, from personal observation most of the screwups appear to be on the guys part. But do they hold it against Russian women? Go read the messageboards (Yahoo-take2/never again; Russian Women's list out of St. John's U) and you'll find most of them trying to find another Russian wife.

Don't get me wrong. I wouldn't encourage anyone to marry someone where there is a large age gap. But, that is primarily because most old guys don't know how to think young. Look for someone close to your age. But if you happen to fall in love with someone less that half your age, it isn't as hopeless a situation as some of these professional BS spewiers claim. Just because they blew it, they can't imagine anyone else getting it right.

"The beliefs you make up will limit what you are willing to experience in life and have happen in your life"

you can just fantasize about it - old cocks are out of interest. even old women prefer younger men - the TRUTH of LIFE

Disgusting anastasia! I am 36 and I can’t understand this woman Anastasia! How old are you? Are you jealousy young ladies hooking up with older men or what? Your words sounds like a sexual hooker – you probably an older woman looking or fantasising on young men! And if it’s so what’s wrong with young ladies going out with older men! There are reasons – this young ladies want a man enough – a family! Not puppy kind of love affairs! Your thoughts to me sound like a prostitute’s kinda thought – I am sorry to use such a word! thomas

Anastasia is just a demented fruitcake with way to much time on her hands. She isn't even attractive in any way shape or form. She can't find a real man and now just trolls here. She spends her days dreaming of western men. Younger men or older no one wants to go near her, she's yesterdays news. Even Russian men think she's repulsive.

I am young and beautiful, but you are the fools - especially this diert Thomas. It isn't your cup of tee the men I sleep with, baby. I told the obvious TRUTH. Yes, young ladies are attracted by older men - of course - best example is Anne Nicole Smith and her dead oil magnat/husband. If you have some multibillion account you may expect in your 60s - 70s that younger ladies will love you. Yes, you are right guys. But most of you do not have any reasonalbe "account" and because of it most of you are ignored by your domestic ladies. That's why you are looking for Russian girls, who as you think will sleep with you for the piece of chewing gum :))))) ha ha ha - don't pretend to be stupid. You are clever enough to understand that it can be NOTHING between old and young, excepting MONEY relationship. Youth is beautiful and poor, old cocks are ugly but some of them aren't poor - here are the points of interest from both sides.

And you will never find any serious agrgumentation against this TRUTH OF LIFE! And remember as soon as young lady finds better way - rich man closer to her age, you'll lose her immediately.

Thanks for making my day by your mad jokes, Thomas and anony :)))) I am pleased by your men's attention - rather put it into your dirty asses, and if you don't want to pay for beauty - sleep with ugly fat cows over 200Lbs. They are what you deserve! Forget about Russian beauty at all, old wankes!

"and if you don't want to pay for beauty - sleep with ugly fat cows"

Well put Anastasia, spoken like a true hooker who is only in it for the money.

Moral of her story, don't marry a hooker who is only in it for the money. You're right Anastasia, you would leave as soon as you find someone richer and younger. Thank you for sharing your vast experience in this matter.

That's why you are looking for Russian girls, who as you think will sleep with you for the piece of chewing gum :))))) ha ha ha - don't pretend to be stupid.

You need chewing gum to clean out your mouth, unfortunately nothing is going to clean the rest of you up, no matter how much you douche.

I'm glad that you are a young and beautiful Russian girls (you still have a filthy mouth), just goes to show that you are a mans worst nightmare, (young and beautiful with a filthy mouth (did your mother teach you that) whether your Russian or something else. Judging my your fixation with asses your either bi, lesbian or a groupie. Hopefully you'll freeze your ass of this winter, might shut u up for a while.

You contribute nothing except to spew your warped sense of male/female realtionships, if it ain't money, it's male anatomy.

I know, TRUTH HURTS, but you will never offend me. Because you are just naive and stupid idiots/wankers, and I am experienced girl in these questions. Just forget about WIFE for FREE if you don't look like Mel Gibson or Timothy Dalton in his age.

I fantasise about U anastasia.....mmmmm....nice
this is no joke.....I like u....

Anastasia - obviously you are pretending to be the daughter of the former Czar but please spell the surname correctly in future old girl.

Tally Ho

doc

I am in my mid twenties anna, my russian gf is 20. I havent got a bloody penny to my name, in fact i owe about 40$ to the bank. she tells me she loves me every day.

Im not a particularly doting boyfriend, i can be quite hard on my girl at times.

my point.

not every russian or ukraine girl is hung up on money some of them really do believe in love. even if its with a bad boy like me.

Gladiator if i get around to making Gladiator 2 i may look you up in view of any extra's needed for the film - not bad pay and it may somewhat clear some of your debt.

Unfortunately, anastasia, all women, to quote a famous poet, are lacking in character and you seem to characterise this characteristic. The only attractive feature of woman is her youth and whilst you may be young now, in another ten years or so, when your looks will start to fade, all that will be left will be a dried-up barren vaccuum where beauty once lay, if at all it ever did.

As a Persian legend says, woman is composed of the hardness of a diamond, the sweetness of honey, the cruelty of a tiger, the warm brightness of a fire and the coolness of snow... such contradictions.

What could a man possibly want with a woman over thirty? It has always been the way that the worst example of manhood always gets the woman - she is attracted by money and money alone and all she has to offer in return is her transient beauty, which like all things of nature, are bound to fade with time.

Women are always devoid of individual value and always link themselves to someone else in their need, born of vanity, to be acknowledged, noticed, flattered, admired and desired. When a man with a big wallet comes along, therefore, they are dumb-founded and almost always fall for the sucker.

Woman is incapable of a logical or ethical imperative and is incapable of any purely intellectual function of judgement. Love in a woman may be termed a veritable hallucination; for want of a prudent motive, it will frequesntly select an absurd one. After all, women are essentially actresses and prostitutes, who take pleasure in impressing others so that they may impress themselves and are the first to be decieved when playing their neurotic melodramas.

But when your ageing and developing wrinkles, your youthful vigour drying up, what use are you - you can't even bare children.

Anonymous, you need to work through your hatred of women.

Some examples of your hateful generalizations and outright lies follow:

"Unfortunately, anastasia, all women, to quote a famous poet, are lacking in character and you seem to characterise [sic] this characteristic."

"[A]ll women" constitutes a false generalization. To state that "all women" possess, or do not possess a certain characteristic is grossly unfair, and simply smears women.

"The only attractive feature of woman is her youth and whilst you may be young now, in another ten years or so, when your looks will start to fade, all that will be left will be a dried-up barren vaccuum [sic] where beauty once lay, if at all it ever did."

Obviously, the only "feature" you value in women are their physical attributes. Have you ever made an effort to have a conversation with a women? Somehow, I doubt it. Apparently, in your world, Anonymous, women are nothing more than sex objects, or a temporarily attractive ornament for your arm.

"As a Persian legend says, woman is composed of the hardness of a diamond, the sweetness of honey, the cruelty of a tiger, the warm brightness of a fire and the coolness of snow... such contradictions."

Would you have us believe that men are not "composed [of] contradictions"? Do you honestly believe we are so void of reason that we do not recognize the contradictory nature of the male gender? Your statement amounts to nothing more than a smear campaign against women.

"What could a man possibly want with a woman over thirty?"

Perhaps you should rewrite the sentence as follows: "What could a misogynist possibly want with a woman over thirty?"

"...she is attracted by money and money alone and all she has to offer in return is her transient beauty".

All women are gold-diggers, is that what you would have us believe, Anonymous? This is nothing more than another of your irresponsible and wildly false assertions, and you can provide no evidence to support this slanderous statement. Do you honestly believe the only thing a women has to offer is "her transient beauty"? What muck, dreck, and hateful lies you spread, Anonymous.

"Women are always devoid of individual value and always link themselves to someone else..."

Another overarching generalization and slander against women. You have no idea why, or how women "link themselves to someone else". And to apply the same motives to all women is pure slander.

"...When a man with a big wallet comes along, therefore, they are dumb-founded and almost always fall for the sucker."

Misogynistic prattle, nothing more; nothing less. This is another hateful generalization that attempts to paint all women as money grubbing pigs, who only value men for the security we provide. Anonymous, you spew more misogynistic crap per cubic meter than just about any sad excuse for a man I've encountered so far. Seek psychiatric intervention.

"Woman is incapable of a logical or ethical imperative..."

Really? I've noticed that not a few males are void of "logical or ethical imperative". How do you explain this phenomenon, in light of your sweeping generalizations and misogynistic rhetoric?

Your prose consists of nothing more than hateful generalizations, and slanderous disinformation designed specifically to offend and scandalize decent women who most surely do not conform to your misogynist preconceptions.

Get a life, Anonymous.

Perhaps you should re-read my post in relation to the context in which it was written; namely, as a retaliatory effort against the barrage of abuse from one Ms. Romanoff [ sic ] [ your use of sic is becoming tiresome, by the way - these are clearly typing errors and not spelling mistakes - stop being so puerile ] to people, men, who are, in the main, genuinely concerned about the disproportionate level of scammers involved in this business and particularly from this geographical location and how she holds herself to be so young, attractive and desirable [ her words, not mine ], when nobody has seen or met her.

It may in fact be that 'she' is a man, in any case, probably with a big moustache, working on behalf of many imaginary women or photographs of women 'looking for love' from a seedy flee-bitten intenet cafe in Lugansk. She claims to be carrying out some sort of crusade for the honour and dignity of ALL Russian women, who, she says, are ALL perfect. This is evidently not so, or this site would not exist, would it not? And why is an innocent Russian lady logging on to this site anyway - I missed that.

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The quote from a poet was none other than that - a quote, from Alexander Pope. Genius is not democratic. Your understanding or lack of it means nothing. You should understand, though, that poetry is symbolic discourse and when these words are interpreted literally, they can give rise to many falsehoods - what I think he is referring to was not physical gender but those metaphysical principles which comprise the universe and which are alluded to in poetry, art, architecture and all traditions, viz, sun and moon, sky and earth, yang and yin, spirit and matter, positive and negative poles that are relflected in man and woman.

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One can find it all too easy to generalise when the mass of the population hold a veritable similarity in chracteristics, or lack of them. Clearly there are exceptions to every rule and I accept that perhaps I should have made this more clear. But the exceptions prove the rule.

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My hatred is not against women at all and I resent such a reactionary statement - but it is against what she has become within the modern world and more accurately, what man has allowed her to become - she is better at being a man than many men and most men are just apes, I agree, so I'm not on some superiority kick - but then, that would be such a predictable reaction from somebody suffering from a true intellectual myopia. Perhaps what may appear to you as a mysogynist [ a word that is far too often used as a get-out when any form of criticism is directed at women ] attitude is merely a counter-argument to the mysandric tirade coming from her own 'generalisations' [ sic ] and her attempts to justify and condone fraudulane activity on the internet - let's not forget that that is the main thrust of this site.

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Fairness is irrelevant - all is fair in love and war.

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It is not that I consider women as nothing more than sex objects - it is that that is what they [ modern women ] consider themselves... in a large number of cases, shall we say. To deny that woman uses her sexuality to manipulate men is to betray a deep lack of understanding of [ the negative side of ] feminine nature - her dark and yes, perhaps unfathomable side. It is modern man's lack of true spiritual virility, as is often expressed by clamours of 'mysogeny', that has allowed this to happen. So, it is men who are perhaps more to blame for this situation, for being gullible fools led by their proverbials and women just taking advantage of the fact would be a consequnece of a pathalogical inversion of natural sexual polarity, as manifested by the foul and abusive nature of the said woman in question, whom you seem to have failed to address in your crusade against tyrant men such as myself.

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If you can put your hand on your heart and say that the first thing that attracted you to your woman was not her physical appearance then perhaps I will admit my error.

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You seem to have many doubts, Mr Happily Married... you doubt that I have even tried to have a conversation with a women [ sic ]. So now you resort to attemting to character-assassinate me because you disagree with what I say. Despite your deification of all women, I retain my right to be a man and not a passive sex-slave of this amazon-culture that we are living in, where women are put on pedestals to admire and adore, without the slightest justification, other than sex and it can't be denied that she uses it to her advantage with such sublime skill.

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...'Women are always devoid of intellectual value and link themselves to someone else' - I may not have any idea why this is so, but what I was saying was that she has even less idea. My statement again does not necessarily refer to all women, but to the [ retarded in present times ] feminine principle, which, to the Greeks, corresponded to the dyad, or two, that is that which has no essence in itself, corresponding to the moon, which by its very nature is changeable, passive and mysterious, like nature herself - it produces no light of its own, but merely reflects that of the sun. The etymological meaning of the word 'husband' substantiates this correspondence, as it implies a shaping or fructifying of the passive female waters. One on the other hand, one was considered as the male number, unity, which when added to two becomes three and completes the cycle, returning to unity. Suffice to say, they both need each other.

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I don't expect you to beleive anything, especially this.

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But the main point I was trying to make was that women [ and men ] have lost track of their true sexual identity - men have become far too passive in their attitudes and live in fear of offending anybody, wanting to please everybody all of the time and at the same time, women have become more aggressive, arrogant and dominant in every walk of life [ I am referring particularly to the West, here, although this characteristic is becoming more evident the world over ], but they do not appear to be able to create their own identity, other than imitate man's in all its negativity - hence the scammers, using their sexuality to allure men to their deaths, like the sirens of old.

They are not preconceptions, but, in fact 'post'-conceptions.

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Another point I was making related to this was that these women who accentuate and rely upoin their sexuality and 'beauty' put all their eggs in one basket, so to speak, and it is by their own error that they become old an wrinkled and lonley, not having developed any of their inner feminine nature, which is, after all, what really attracts a man to her on the level of the soul.

Let's get this straight, what I am writing here is in no way designed to slander decent women - it is those decent women that are in such short supply that I admire and honour and wish there were more of in my own country; perhaps there are many of them in Russia, - in fact I have actually known one or two myself, so please do not be so presumptuous in future - I do not particularly like having to explain myself more than once. But... I care not who I offend, as if anybody is offended by any of this, then the problem lies with themselves.