Ok, I met this girl on excite.com and having done some research on "scammers" and "red flags" to look out for for the most part there haven't been any that I've acknowledge yet. I've been corresponding with her now for almost two months now. Not once has she asked for money stating "real Russian women do not ask!!!".
Now here's where the problem occurs...From this message board, I found a link to here
http://www.ecosmosingles.com/scam_article01.htm
And on this board I see "one picture" of "Vasilisa" whom I've been corresponding with. She answers all my questions for the most part. So far, doesn't seem to have a problem with me visiting her in her city of Chelynabrinsk. However....the above link does confirm that her name Vasilisa is "one of her names" as are the following which I will paste...
"MARINA CHUMACHENKO OR ALFIA MAGDEEVA OR VASILISA SCHELKONOGOVA"
Now here's where the "detective" story gets interesting...She wrote to me in one of her first emails (when I saw this, I quickly started reading the "early emails" to see if I could gather up any clues) the following email...
>Subject: till next time
>Date: Thu, 2 Nov 2000 15:36:28 +0500 (YEKT)
>
>Well, my friend Ron from very far

if you are still interested - I will
>be waiting for your mail next time!!! Marina is a friend of mine - but not
>that very good friend I can trust 100%. She lives with her husband. Well -
>I think I will write you more next time if you reply - okay? Bye till next
>time
>
>Vasilisa
>
I noticed the "but not that very good friend" part. Because if you go to the "scammer" link...the pictures look different from one another, and from the pictures that I was given by her. Scroll down to the bottom of the link, as that's where she's "on the list".
I'm thinking of the possibility that yes she could be a "scammer"...but at the same time, maybe her "friend" Marina used the "real Vasilisa's" photos to scam guys. This computer was being used at "Marina's" house. Anyhow...now I'm even more skeptical then before LOL...
That's too bad though, because if the scenario I've just given is true...I may be in a huge way not being fair to Vasilisa.
Hmmm...and NO I'm not hard-up on dates contrary to what I've noticed some people accuse men who correspond with RW LOL

Now, it's like a good detective mystery...
What I'll probably do is "beg" for her to send me more pictures as I'd "love to see more of her"...Then...if she sends me any of the pics I've seen on the scammers list...maybe then there is some truth to it....But then again....eeeccksss who knows!!!
Shep