I live in VA, so I can't say what kind of places they have in NJ or elsewhere, but I have to put another vote in favor of Let's Dish! (
http://www.letsdish.com). Ray and I go about once a month, and get 4 dishes (next month we're going to try 8 for the first time), each of which makes 2-3 meals for the two of us. We have not yet gotten anything from there that we hated, and most things have been very good. It's nice for picky folks (like us) because if there's an ingredient you don't like, you can just leave it out. We don't have their stuff every single day, but it adds a lot of much-needed variety to our meals, and makes it very easy to cook a good, nutritious dinner quickly with no fuss.
Also, when there's something I especially like, I will study the recipe very carefully, then jot it down as soon as I get into the car. This wouldn't necessarily prevent me from buying the same meal from them in the future (because there's a lot to be said for the way they have everything laid out and pre-chopped for you), but it allows me to have it even when they're not actually offering that item.
