It should feel the most comfortable and natural thing in the world.
For the record, I'm not trying to change you. That is not my place. I'm simply trying to show you, by word and example, that disagreements are resolved through logical, reasonable, and calm discussions. Not by "drawing lines in the sand" stating that "we must band together to fight 'them' off".
Go study the good book and see whether it supports what I'm saying. You don't even have to trust me. I'm simply a 'messenger'.