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Why do so many need qualify people they do not like as stupid...

February 14 2012 at 10:46 PM

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why can't people just deal with the fact they do not like them ...without having to...i 'spose...justify their hatred in the own mind and psyche by judging them as 'stupid' etc??

Personally i am glad most do not do this....but many do. Perhaps there is a lot of projection involved in this thought process...i do not know for sure.

But imv....people offer many things...valuable things.....and people who need do this...not only rob themselves from growing themselves from what the other person they judge can offer....but....i think it is a great way to harden one's heart and many them bitter ....the more one needs claim how great they have it....YET...have so much bitternes and judgements against others in this way....?.....i find the 2 not in harmony.....

i suppose however, for some it is easier to claim whom they hate are stupid peoople....then admitt they hate most in them what that person reflects in their own flaws and lacking.....again....nothing is ever absolute on issues like this....but....i think the possiblity exists that what i say here could be true.

any thoughts??

btw.....we are ALL 'stupid' at times...and act stupidly....some just mask it better than others imv.

 
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