Look like a skunk long enough to determine what color your hair really is. (Have someone other than your husband, preferably a stylist, make the determination). If you went gray in your 20s, you might have really spectacular salt and pepper hair, or even be a silver fox. If you are--let it grow some more and have it cut short. I wear my hair very short (which looks fabulous with silver hair, which mine is NOT and unfortunately never will be) and it took 3 haircuts and about 6 months before it was fully grown out. If you want, you can try a temporary hair color while it is growing out...but, honestly, it didn't look as bad as I'll bet you think it did. I think gray/silver hair looks fabulous when it is short, but if you don't like it, you can let it grow out...and save money on haircuts, LOL.