I think something like this should be discussed in order to help this from happening again, I don't feel any sympathy though for "Robbie". When you mention his son, are you referring to Toby?
Anyhow, I think the internet is a great place to search for truths. Why are you so paranoid? If it makes you feel any better, I am gay and in my 30's and have had a few lovers, I may have got jealous at times but to go to the point Molloy went is beyond me.