and we follow it. I'm not sure how the routine fell into play but I know it was set by the needs of Logan. I found what worked and continued with it. I can now say that it is ok to vary our routine somewhat (flexible routine) as long as I asked before or prepare for the change. I sometimes get a No! and accept it or try to explain the importance for the change. I am also a very structured and routine person and my non-sk is easy-going and goes with the flow.
I offer choices...choices...choices and prepare for transitions by using a timer, a clock or verbal warnings.
Lynette
Mom to Brenden 8/93 & Logan 8/96
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