Truth and Lies

Truth and Lies

I have a question for everyone. I have been weighing it in my own mind for some time now and I think it is an open enough ended question that I can ask it and not get stories leading into certain places that We do not want to talk about.

I think that as humans we believe that most people are good people. We believe that each person’s word is true and good until proven otherwise. When you meet a new person you generally give them the benefit of the doubt as to if they are trustworthy and real. When meeting a new person most do not question there motive or intent. They just believe that there word is true and correct.

When a person finds out that they have been lied to it is a total betrayal. You feel violated and hurt. But most of all there is a huge disbelief of what is truth and what are lies. What is reality and what is fantasy. Truth and Reality being one side of things and comfort and fantasy is the other side of things.

It is so often hard for us as humans to accept reality and truth even when the proof and the obvious are right in front of our faces. It is hard to believe that something you have believed is not true sometimes that people look past that truth and reality to avoid change.

Change can happen for both the good and the bad. Change in so many ways can make your life so much better and happier. Change can also Hurt and be sad. It can make you feel like you have lost a part of yourself that you may or may not have been ready to give up. Change is always inevitable in this day and age. Life is change, we are always ever so changing in so many different ways.

Accepting change and accepting reality and truth can be very hard when you realize everything you have been living and trusting is a lie. I have found that once you realize the truth and overcome the lies you can accept change. It can take time but in the end you have to remember you are much better off accepting change and truth than living in lies and deception.

Give me your thoughts on what I have written. I would love to hear any comments or objections to this statement.