Firstly. let me say I am grateful for this forum. Just to be able to talk about our loved; ones is therapeutic in itself.
I lost my husband of five years, on October 25th, 2005. Like a similar posting I have read here, my husband died at home, in front of me, of a massive heart attack. We were the love of each others lives, we totally adored each other and so it was really no surprise to me, that Garry, my husband, would do his best to take care of me, even after he left this world. Garry came to me many times in the first year after he left. It was always in dreams, but not dreams if that makes sense. I was able to talk to him, ask him questions and he answered me. But most of all, he reassured me of his love for me and told me that we would be together when it was my turn to leave this world. That was Garry's way. We were always there for each other when he was alive, and so I understood what he was doing. I would like to point out, my husband had lost his left leg in a motorcycle accident, 20 years prior to when we met; I had never known him any other way. When I saw him in my dreams, he had both legs; he was whole and beautiful....radiant even. I miss him more than ever, and love him as much today as the day he died. I am grateful that God took him home first, because I love him too much to ever want him to feel the pain that I feel every day. I am also grateful that he is not suffering or in pain anymore and that he is in a truly wonderful place. I know it. But most of all, I am grateful in the knowledge that we will be together again and I know that with certainty, because he told me so, and Garry would never tell me anything, unless it was true.
I love you my baby.
Posted on Oct 7, 2008, 2:55 AM from IP address 115.129.27.72
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