We hope you will find comfort, love, and friendship here. Please feel free to share and discuss your ADCs (After-death Communications) here with like-minded individuals. IF YOU DO NOT SHARE THE BELIEFS EXPRESSED ON THIS FORUM, PLEASE RESPECT THE INDIVIDUALS HERE WHO ARE GRIEVING THE LOSS OF A LOVED ONE AND SEARCH FOR AN APPROPRIATE FORUM ELSEWHERE TO EXPRESS YOUR OPINIONS. THANK YOU!
Hello... again!
by Robin (no login)
I have been away from this website for quite awhile... and am floored to see messages posted here as late as May of this year.
I am so touched to see that this website, honoring those we love forever and ever.... is still looking so good and providing comfort...
((((Betty)))) you wrote your message on the anniversary of my reason for helping create this site with my darling friend, Kaye... my sweetheart in heaven left this earth on 4/17/76. He is STILL my sweetheart, in heaven, and I am sure we will start up again when it's my time to go...
I am so sorry for the loss of your Mom, sweetie, and, just in case you do find your way here, again, even though your message was not acknowledged til now... I am going to check back here soon and see what's happening.
I am here for you if you want to share your experience, and if you just need to hear that LOVE never dies... we will be with our loved ones when our time of learning on this planet is over...
Bryan's been gone for over 34 years, longer than he was alive... amazing... and, he still lets me know and I still get to feel that we are still connected by love... everlasting neverending love...
I am saying a prayer for all of you to feel the presence of your loved one be it your spouse, child, soulmate, mother, brother, grandma...
With all the LOVE there is to heal,
Robin
Posted on Nov 7, 2009, 6:05 PM from IP address 173.101.68.242
Firstly. let me say I am grateful for this forum. Just to be able to talk about our loved; ones is therapeutic in itself.
I lost my husband of five years, on October 25th, 2005. Like a similar posting I have read here, my husband died at home, in front of me, of a massive heart attack. We were the love of each others lives, we totally adored each other and so it was really no surprise to me, that Garry, my husband, would do his best to take care of me, even after he left this world. Garry came to me many times in the first year after he left. It was always in dreams, but not dreams if that makes sense. I was able to talk to him, ask him questions and he answered me. But most of all, he reassured me of his love for me and told me that we would be together when it was my turn to leave this world. That was Garry's way. We were always there for each other when he was alive, and so I understood what he was doing. I would like to point out, my husband had lost his left leg in a motorcycle accident, 20 years prior to when we met; I had never known him any other way. When I saw him in my dreams, he had both legs; he was whole and beautiful....radiant even. I miss him more than ever, and love him as much today as the day he died. I am grateful that God took him home first, because I love him too much to ever want him to feel the pain that I feel every day. I am also grateful that he is not suffering or in pain anymore and that he is in a truly wonderful place. I know it. But most of all, I am grateful in the knowledge that we will be together again and I know that with certainty, because he told me so, and Garry would never tell me anything, unless it was true.
I love you my baby.
Posted on Oct 7, 2008, 2:55 AM from IP address 115.129.27.72
I am new to this forum trying to get help,sometimes I feel like Im going crazy.I cry everyday and I have insomia and bad depression and in the middle of the night Im crying and crying missing my love of my life,he was my fiance for seven years and we were to get married in September 09 he had diabetes very bad and his blood sugar would go very high and then it would go low, very low he had the worse kind of diabetes and his uncles did not live to be 48.He would always tell me that he felt like he was going to die soon,but I would always tell him please dont say that babe.He was in las vegas visiting he family and he was comming home to me,he had been there for 9months.I recieved a phone call saying that my babe had passed away in a chair,it appeared that he had fell asleep and did not wake up.When I found out I cried and cried and Im still crying.The bad thing was I did not have the money to go to his funeral or even send any flowers.I feel very very bad for not being able to go.Our last words that day was I love you and I will call you tonight,I called him before he called me, and there was no answer and then I called several times and still no answer,he was babysitting his daughters dog while they went to a graduation in California and they were to be home that night,his daughter thought he was asleep but when he did not wake up she hurried and called the ambulance,but he had already been gone for 2 hours.I feel his presence all the time,I feel him touching me and even laying down with me when Im watching tv and sometimes strange things happen,like the week he passed away there was a phone call and it came from his cell phone when I answered it no one was there,it did that a couple of times and I feel him talking to me in my dreams but then when I wake up,I dont remember what he was telling me,he mostly comes around when its dark and quiet and I can feel him,I know he is alright and does not have to deal with all his illnesses he had when he was a diabetic,but I fill like Im losing it not being able to hear his voice and hold and hug him,but he holds and hugs me and I feel him caress my arms,but is this for real,or is it my imagination because I want him and need him and love him and miss him so badly.am I being greedy and selfish not letting him go and rest in peace?He was the best thing that happened in my life including my kids and my grandchild and he had the best personality and he would take his shirt off his back for any one, my kids looked up to him as there father instead of there real father.I am still wearing his engagement ring and I will never take it off and I dont want no one else in my life, he was the one for me and we will be together one of these days.Why cant I let him go?and let him rest in peace.I love you !!! my Robert babe,I will never forget you my sweetheart, my love of my life, my soulmate.Love your Annababe
He passed away June 23rd 2008 and was 43
Posted on Jan 18, 2009, 6:20 PM from IP address 71.210.112.147
Hi Robin,
im only 15 and lost my mum at age 12.Now I live with my aunt.It's been 3years now,but the pain will always remain in my heart...i miss her to death and I cry all the time,especially at nights when all my thoughts come up!sometimes I just dont know how to handle this all!please help me.
lots of love
Bettyxx
Posted on Apr 17, 2009, 5:20 AM from IP address 79.32.230.65
One thing that will allow you to give what you have is when you’re in-love or you’re loving somebody. The BEST example of the act of giving because of love was already shown in the Bible and it says,
“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son,
that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting
life.” -John 3:16
This act of giving because of love have no criminal intent. Because of love you will give for others to live. You will act as donor with something to give because you know that somebody (acceptor) needs it. And the acceptors’ duty and part to play is to believe and receive your gift.
What will be the reaction and feelings of the donor, and what will happen if the acceptor refused to believe and accept the gift you are giving?
If the part to play by these orphans and elderly were the acceptors, when they refused to believe and accept the gift that you are giving, they may die of thirst, hunger, and sorrows.
Therefore the act of refusing to give (when you have something to give ) when you know that somebody needs it for them to live is an act with criminal intent…
The ULTIMATE act that God may give because of love is to donate or give His only begotten Son for people to live an everlasting life.
We can give cash, foods, used clothes, scraps, prayers, moral supports, blood, body parts and organs, and even our own life all because we love them who need our donations and gifts for them to live a very short life here on earth…
http://love4charity.blogspot.com
Posted on Feb 11, 2009, 11:37 PM from IP address 115.147.2.235
Oh my sweet baby girl how I miss you. Hi! I am Kathy and my precious daughter of 30 has left me in this world to feel even more alone than I allready was. I had not spoken with her in seven months due to a heated arguement when a voice told me to call her. We had a special talk that evening. It was wonderful to make things right again. Two hours later she was gone. My baby sister and my mom have recently passed away also. There are no more girly laughs for me. Just pain. How do I ever get passed this?For my baby girl it was an accidental over dose of meds to help her cope with the grief of my moms and sisters passing. My sis Julie has visited me once and I know she is in a devine place. I know they are all together. I suppose that is the only comfort for me. I will miss them and keep them in my heart always.
Posted on Oct 26, 2008, 8:46 PM from IP address 170.94.252.246
My husband died on the 6th of July 1996, I never accepted his sudden death. He was killed in Germany on the “Autobahn” in a car crash, in which he was innocent; the other guy came out of it without a scratch. Anyway…
After his death I kept hearing, smelling and seeing him (seeing him, was only in my dreams, but were they really just ‘dreams’?).
The most important contact that I have experienced was the first Christmas without him, actually it was New Year’s Eve.
All my friends would call me and invite me and the boys over to party, so I wouldn’t be alone, but I didn’t want to, they kept calling one after the other, at the end I unplugged the phone. I wanted to be alone and make an end to my misery; I was looking for heavy medications, strong enough that my boys and myself could join their father in heaven. They were already asleep and I was thinking, that I have to take them with me, because they couldn’t survive my going anyway, so I wanted to end their misery, too. But somehow I got so tired in my searching (I mean really tired, I barely could keep my eyes open, as if I would have already taken some sleeping pills), but I didn’t have enough in the house, so somehow I went to sleep.
I woke up by the sound of the popping of a champagne bottle and the voice of my husband, telling me to get up and not to sleep through the New Year. He poured champagne in glasses and kept telling me to wake up and get up, he wanted to celebrate. I actually answered him, I told him to let me sleep, I was too tired to celebrate and anyway with all this noise he would wake up the boys. And he said I have to wake them up anyway to see the fireworks, he kept talking and talking to get up and drink with him in celebration of the New Year, he stood in the doorway of my bedroom calling me lazybones. Finally tired of listening to him nagging at me, I got up. What a surprise, he wasn’t there and I realized he could not have been there, because he passed away 5 months earlier, but it was so real; I got up just in time to wake up the boys and see the fireworks with them.
As I said I had many more, but this one stayed really with me.
Blessings,
Cesca
Posted on Apr 4, 2008, 4:49 PM from IP address 66.60.188.7
I feel him all the time, I hear him too, I am blessed! I know we will be together again in heaven!I know he's here, but I wish I could touch him, kiss him, hug him ,Its still hard and I will never get over it this is something I will have to live with. but I know he is safe and I am grateful fo r all the many wonderful signs I cant even tell you right now but I will come back and tell you.
God Bless
Posted on Mar 18, 2008, 11:59 PM from IP address 69.205.166.114
Thank You for Sweethearts In Heaven
When I went Web Searching Today, God knew Just what My Heart Needed.
Thank You So Very Much.Let The Healing Begin.One Breath at A Time. This Website is A Breath of Sweet Heavenly Air. Praise God.
I Know the Two of You are Listening to the Spirit. God is Good.All the Time. Love Goldiesmoon...Roxanna
Posted on Feb 27, 2008, 6:11 PM from IP address 64.136.27.226
Hey RobinK,I don't know how I wound up here...but I did.
My heart is broken,You know Moma passed on 9/24, I am just so lost.
I have never felt such pain ever.
I cant even believe that this happened.One minute it's real,the next it's not.
I think I am losing it and I am scared.
I dont do anything without my Moma. she is my best friend and she's well my Moma.
Oh my God!!! I want her back here with me .I dont know how to get up this time.
love you girly,
Candi
Posted on Oct 15, 2007, 7:44 PM from IP address 4.153.250.44
I wish I could help you now... oI do remember that when my mom passed on, in 1980, I didn't know what I was living for, how I could manage without her, and the pain, the pain...
It did get easier, life does go on... in those days I didn't know about ADCs and life after this life... I didn't know I could have talked to my mom, that she could hear me and that she and I still had the BIG LOVE we shared flowing between us... as you and your beloved Mama do.
What's your Mama's name? I will say a prayer for her, and ask God that she let you know that not only is she alright, YOU are too! Or you will be.... eventually, sweetheart.
With all the LOVE there is to bring you some comfort and things to do to take care of yourself and your kids!
I love you, Blondie!
Posted on Nov 16, 2007, 7:16 PM from IP address 66.174.79.236
Candi
Oh My Momma just Passed Over on Jan 7th , and Oh How I Feel You Heartach and Pain. I wish we were close so we could Cry together. I can feel my Mom near me at times. Can You Feel Yours? Take a Few Deep Breaths and Remember Your Love for One another, Feel that Closeness, Remember Her and Her laughter . Thats How I Feel My Momma Sometimes. I am also going to start writting Her Love Letters. Just Telling Her about How Much I Miss her and the Memories I have of Us and Our Whole Family Together. I know Shes with My Dad and Brothers and so Many of my other Loved Ones there all with God in a Much Better Place than here. I dont Really want her here ,I Want to Be there.I Feel God all around Me at all times, I Know that I am never in darkness no matter how myuch pain and tears that I feel now. I am Standing On the Promises Of Jesus. and Jesus said Come to the Water and Stand by My Side, I Know You are thirsty and You will Not be Denied, "I have Felt Every Teardrop that In Darkness You've Cried" and "I am Here To Remind You...That for Those Tears I Died"
LOVE JESUS
Posted on Feb 27, 2008, 6:00 PM from IP address 64.136.27.226
Thank you for being you, Robin and Kaye, for what you've done.
by
(no login)
This is a very special web site. I know you know this, but now I know it too. I too came to find you through JVP's link. Now I have my special ADC's typed neatly out thanks to you to ladies, (and to my Mother) so I may share them with my 93 yr. old Grandfather whom resided over my Mother's services. I will be back. The poems seem so appropriate in the "library." What a loving and comforting site for me to stumble upon and perch.
Thank you again for such a priceless gift here.
IN LOVE, Vikki
Posted on Jul 1, 2007, 11:02 AM from IP address 24.95.77.197
First time to this site. Wanted to introduce myself.
by
(no login)
Hi to Everyone,
I found this website through a link from James Van Praagh website, which I visit often.
Sadly I lost my long time fiance and the love of my life over a year ago, on April 8, 2006. We were together almost 34 years. He was only 52 and died in our home, in front of me. I was in another room, finishing up our income taxes and I heard him coughing (he had been showing symptoms of a cold). I thought about checking on him, but didn't, as we had been arguing and I figured it was just his cold. Seconds later, I heard him gasping for breath and he was on his knees by the loveseat and then just went over backwards and hit his head on the floor. I called 911 right away and the 911 operator told me not to do anything, as long as he was breathing. He fought so hard and then he stopped breathing. I tried cpr, but it didn't work. A police officer friend came and tried to shock his heart. Still nothing. The rescue squad arrived and could not revive him. They rushed him to the hospital, trying to revive him all the way and even still in the hospital. They never got a response from him.
I think back at all the things I did wrong and all the things I missed. We found out later that he had swallowed his partial denture, while coughing, which we believe brought on the heart attack and blocked part of his airway. He tried to tell me, by putting his tongue where his denture was supposed to be. I didn't figure it out, until days later. Thinking back, I don't think I did the cpr correctly. I didn't tell him that I loved him. I didn't ride in the ambulance with him and have no idea why. I waited until the cop left my house and then drove myself, all the while thinking he would be ok. He never came back to me.
Exactly one month to the day, before he passed, his mother passed away. He was staying with her most nights, as she was terminal. She passed away one night, while he slept. He felt so guilty that he wasn't there to hold her hand. I tried to convince him that she wanted it to be that way. I don't think his heart ever recovered. I am sure that our arguments and many other things just built up, until the stress was more than he could handle.
Three weeks after he passed, I had a reading for the family and myself, with a medium recommended by James Van Praagh on his site. It was awesome. I had told God that if he allowed him to come through to me, I would start going to church, which I had never done. Well he and his mother came through with flying colors and I kept my promise and have been going to church regularly. I have also had additional readings and heard from them several times and my parents and other relatives, as well. I would strongly recommend it, with a reputable medium of course, as James recommends.
I am now trying to go on with my life, without him. I miss him so much and would change so many things, if I could do things over. I convince myself that he is happy, as he has told me in a reading that he is finally able to go fishing. He never had the time before.
I do think that he tries to contact me sometimes by letting the phone ding once, sending birds and butterflies, playing a song on the radio.One time I was talking to his brother on the phone and we both heard a man's voice call out his brother's name very clearly over the phone lines. No one was around.
I wanted to give everyone some background information and hope to hear from some of you. My email address is withee@mwt.net. Thanks....
Take Care, Cathy
Posted on Jun 18, 2007, 4:36 PM from IP address 207.190.111.164
I am so sorry for your heartbreaking loss... under any circumstance it is painful and overwhelming to lose our sweethearts. Even though I KNOW that we will see them and be with them again when we are finished with our earthly lives and also pass on...
I hope you have found some comfort here and trust knowing that your darling is always with you in spirit.
There is a message board at www.christineduminiak.com where people share after death communications and we pray for each other. Our (Kaye's and mine) website has not become an active communications center, but, does seem to provide comfort in the offering of spiritual sharings.
May God continue to BLESS you with ADCs from your beloved; please know that he feels only LOVE for and from you, he no longer has the same earthly issues... also, it is my understanding, from all I have read, that we all pass on when it is our time; there is nothing you could have done differently to change when he passed... and, it is very common for us left behind to go through survivor's guilt and all the woulda shoulda coulda's. I send you a big ((((())))) of peace and comfort.
I do hope you will visit the above website and find comfort and more love there, too...
With all the LOVE there is to grieve and move forward,
Robin
Posted on Jun 18, 2007, 6:59 PM from IP address 75.195.18.29
My husband Joe passed over Jan 1st 2006
3 months to the day I got my first dream visit and He told me "I have not Died" I never know when I will have one but since the first one I have had about 10. The best one was the night before our wedding aniversary and it was awesome!! He told me I had been depressed lately ( and I had ) I said you know about that and he said yes I see and know alot. He was holding my hands and rubbing my arms and it was a radiance of love like I never experienced before. So much love and different than what we know here on earth. I felt so wonderful when I woke up as I alwsys do after a visit but this one was the best!!
Posted on Apr 3, 2007, 6:42 PM from IP address 205.188.116.73
for sharing your miracle of LOVE from your darling husband, Joe, in spirit now... what a relief to know that he is not gone completely, that his LOVE is with you always; we will be with our loved ones again, when it is our time to "graduate".
I am grateful for your taking the time to share your love story here... sweethearts can find courage and hope through all of our stories.
Bless you with ADCs from Joe til you meet again!
With all the LOVE we are so blessed to share,
Robin
Posted on Apr 3, 2007, 10:00 PM from IP address 66.174.79.238
I have lost my sister on the 5th of May, 2006. I red communication after death written by some of you. I would like to experience the same feelings, because I miss so much my lovely sister. I am raising her 13 years old child. Please pray for me so that God could give me courage to continue.
It is difficult to survive, but we manage.
pray for us
Eleni
Posted on Feb 27, 2007, 4:33 AM from IP address 87.19.19.208
Thank you for your message; I hope you found some comfort here to know that after death communication is a common occurrance (sp) and possible for you and your sister.
Have you been to www.christineduminiak.com?
There is a Prayer Wave of many who are aching with the physical loss of loved ones and we all pray for each other, especially on what has come to be called Prayer Wave Friday... all you need to do is ask for prayers for ADCs, our prayers are answered!
God BLESS you with comfort and a sweet life raising your neice!
With all the LOVE there is to move forward,
Robin
Posted on Feb 27, 2007, 1:05 PM from IP address 70.198.41.137
Eleni,
I'm so sorry on the loss of your sister. I understand you want a dream visit from your sister. Im sure you will receive one or lots of them. Sometimes it is awhile and I have heard of people not getting them for years. I ask for a sign that my husband is with me and it took awhile but may have not been, I could have missed a sign, but lately I have had several signs he is around me. If you are a person that don't remember dreams too well, you may have missed it. Be assured you will, just be patient. Again I'm so sorry about your sister. I think grief is worse than any physical pain, at least it has been for me.
Posted on Apr 3, 2007, 6:59 PM from IP address 205.188.116.73
Hi, Civic,
I just sent a message to you at the given web addy, Civic@geocities.com and it was returned.
Just to let you, and all, know, our book is far from ready for publication, however, your story of love that never dies is exactly what we want to convey; love is forever, there really is life after death from this world and we are always connected to those we feel in our hearts and souls.
If you would like to be contacted, please write again with a working e-address.
With all the LOVE there is to share,
Robin
Posted on Jan 15, 2007, 8:19 AM from IP address 75.195.57.134
I am touched that you find comfort here, just in knowing that there are other soul mates/sweethearts who are experiencing the power of love, just not on the same planes for awhile!
Every now and then I find myself with this thought, "ok, enough is enough, can't he come back now... he's/you've been dead long enough now...!
I find it an extraordinary privelege and honor to know such a love as this.... the soul connection with Bryan, as well as the loving friends and family right here in this life with me...I hope you are strengthened and at peace with the LOVE you and your sweetie will always share... yes, even if (if you are not already) you marry someone else... love never dies.
Thanks for writing here. Any time you want to share your contacts from this special soulbud, please....
Love and light to share, to heal all who know such (physical)separation,
Robin
Posted on Jan 12, 2007, 5:47 PM from IP address 75.192.72.57
HI,
Thank you for your response. Yes, it's amazing that our soulmates still maintain that connection from a different plane of existence.
I'm currently married and love my spouse for who he is as an individual. I will always, always carry a profound love for my #1 soulmate who passed. Love truly never dies. That is the comfort we have until our return to them.
All the love....
Posted on Jan 13, 2007, 7:47 AM from IP address 68.0.96.200
Oh Audra ...you are so right... it is so comforting to know our sweetie's can let us know they are happy ... and always still with us. I know my husband Douglas is going to be the one who will help me cross over one day ... just as he did with my mom who crossed over soon after him... during her last 12 hours on earth she was in and out of deep sleep and the very last time she woke up and was able to talk with us she held my hand tightly and told me .... She saw Douglas..my mom had terminal stomach cancer and was in hospice for 6 weeks till her crossing and we discussed many things as we both had the same beliefs about the Otherside... and the one thing I asked of her was to tell my Douglas I love him soooo much and I will be looking for him during my final hours here on Earth. Like you my sweetheart always lets me know he is around his family... welcome to Robin and Katybelle's board..I think it is a beautiful website...hugs to you....Joann K~
Posted on Jan 13, 2007, 5:26 AM from IP address 24.66.94.141
Hello,
It's is truly comforting to know that our loved ones let us and others know they are fine. I'm happy you hear from your hubby still.
Many, many more to come!!
Posted on Jan 13, 2007, 7:49 AM from IP address 68.0.96.200
Hi Robin And Kateybell
I haven't been online too much in the last 5 weeks... been busy back at work and going to see my new grandson when ever I can...I can't get enough of that little one. I was at my daughters on Saturday to babysit as she had to go get her hair cut ...she was in the bathroom sitting at her vanity doing her makeup ... and I was carrying Kyler around the house watching him focus in on things...I had him in the upright position against my shoulder... so I could look at his face... we walked down the long hallway and stopped by the bathroom doorway to say hi to his mommy....but he wasn't looking at his mommy ...instead he was staring over my shoulder intently... so I looked to see what he was staring at... on the wall my daughter has a big frame with a collage of pictures of Douglas in them ..Kyler was staring at the pictures when all of a sudden he smiled so beautifully... I turned to tell my daughter... and then we both watched as I turned him to the pictures again... and he looked intently at the biggest picture a 5 x 7 of Douglas once again he smiled. This went on for about 7 mins . There is a picture of Douglas on Kyler's dresser in his room too ... as Christine feels her dad is watching over Kyler..me.. I am starting to think Douglas met Kyler before any of us here on Earth did...just thought I would share this with both of you ....love Joann K~
Posted on Jan 11, 2007, 11:03 AM from IP address 24.66.94.141
I have to agree with you, precious Joanne, I would think that Douglas met his grandbaby boy before Kyler got here... what fun, what a belssing and joy to know that Douglas is looking out for all of you and, it appears, Kyler knows all about him there!
Thanks for stopping by to share this precious LOVE story!
Love and light to you and your growing happy family,
Robin
Posted on Jan 12, 2007, 5:34 PM from IP address 75.192.72.57
Hi Robin...I was looking at some of Douglas's pictures when he was a baby that his mom had given me years ago. Kyler is the image of him....as is my daughter ...I believe Kyler is a Blessing from God ... for our family ..to help us all with our healing. Hugs and Love to you both ...Joann K~
here are a couple of pics of Kyler on photobuckets hope the link to them works cos I haven't done it too much and usually forget which link to click on...lol
HI Ladies...I love your website... a website for " sweethearts ". Hi Robin... you may not remember me but we met a few years back on the ADC website... I had just lost my husband Douglas the love of my life suddenly ... and after a dream I had with him a couple of months later...I woke up from that dream knowing we were really together.that it was no ordinary dream ..I knew it in my heart... and went looking for answers... buying books and then looking for websites. That was how I found the ADC board... and I learned so much there from wonderful people like you , Hazel, Steve D and Ken Prather... just to name a few.. there were so many that heped me there. It is so nice to see a website dedicated to our sweethearts on the Otherside. My daughter who got married last year... is expecting a baby this Month of Nov...infact her baby is due on her birthday Nov 22 which I will always remember she shares that birthdate with you ..I know my Douglas and my Mom are both watching over my daughter and the baby .... I am planning on looking for orbs in all the pics we take at the hsoptial the day the baby is born. Once again.... lovely website ladies ...your friend Joann K
Posted on Nov 18, 2006, 12:31 PM from IP address 24.66.94.141
How remarkable that you remember my B-day is same as your daughter's! Thanks for this message, it is encouraging to know that this site makes a difference to sweethearts on earth!
I remember you, always will, as one of my first online friends to give me the confidence to continue on this path and to get past the "I must be crazy" phase of receiving (and sending to my sweetie) ADCs. I don't know if I ever told you that when I met Bryan he had girlfriend named Joanne! I was always jealous of her for all the time she had with him. By the time they broke up, I had moved on to someone else, but, the week before Bryan took his own life, I recognized him as The ONE and was about to end my relationship and re-connect with B.
Love you and thanks, again, Joann :)
Robin
Posted on Nov 20, 2006, 8:18 AM from IP address 208.116.136.5
My daughter Christine got married October 2005 to the most wonderful young man ...he reminds me so much of my Douglas...when I did a speech to the bride at the reception ... I told her she was my treasure in this life...and her husband lifted his wine glass to me and he said now she is our treasure. She is expecting a baby and her baby due date is Nov 21 ... so her baby could very well be born on the 22 nd of Nov..wouldn't that be amazing if you , my daughter and my very first grandchild ended up sharing the same birthday. I am on pins and needles with excitement as our little bundle of joy could be in my arms in a day or two. big hugs to you ....Joann K~
Posted on Nov 20, 2006, 8:38 AM from IP address 24.66.94.141
Hi Robin ... yes this is my very first grandchild...and this baby is so loved already and will be even more when it is born. Christine started contractions this late this afternoon ... about an hour and a half apart... so she is in the very early stages of labor... so we may all three get our wish ... and Nov 22nd birth... we are all so excited...and I know her dad and my mom are close to her now...I could feel it when I was over at her house with her today ... : ) love Joann K~
Posted on Nov 21, 2006, 1:37 PM from IP address 24.66.94.141
Thanks so very much for being the first one to post on our message board. I had about given up that anyone ever would. Hopefully, your post will encourage others to use this board as a way to share our wonderful gifts of love from the other side.
Also, thanks for reminding me that Robin's B-day is tomorrow. I knew it was coming up, but couldn't remember the exact date. LOL!
Love & Blessings,
Katybelle
Posted on Nov 21, 2006, 8:35 AM from IP address 71.48.160.146
This is such a nice website...I love it because my Douglas... even though crossed over will be my sweetheart always and forever...I have emailed a couple of women from another message board that lost their husbands too...and told them about this site... and sent the link to it. I remember Robins birthday since the ADC message board days... when I was telling someone I posted to it was my daughters birthday and Robin said it was her's too... and I knew I would always remember her birthday after that...lol hugs to you ...Joann K~
Posted on Nov 21, 2006, 1:41 PM from IP address 24.66.94.141
Thanks so much for telling others about our website. Please encourage them to post here if they have a need to communicate with others.
I'm glad we could bring you some comfort with the physical loss of your Douglas. I have to tell you of another connection between us all (other than Robin's B-day) - I was married to a Douglas, too. But, apparently you got the good Douglas, mine was a dud. LOL! Like you, I never found anyone that could match up to my Jim although I did marry twice. I have quit even trying anymore. I wear a couples ring on my left hand with our birthstones intwined and our names engraved on each side of the ring. It makes me feel happy and connected.
Love & Blessings,
Katybelle
Posted on Nov 24, 2006, 4:53 PM from IP address 172.168.3.95
Hi...this is a great idea thankyou...Ok a little about me...my name is Melissa,Im 34 have 4 children Kriston 17,Arron,15,Bethany 13,and Joseph 9...I tragicly lost my partner/soulmate father to my children in April 1st 2006...He was and is my one true love and always will be..although hes no longer here with me in body he most deff is with me in spirit...I have had many many experiences with him and so have our two youngest children...anyway I just wanted to do a quick post to introduce myself...hugs Mel xxx
Posted on Dec 17, 2006, 3:53 PM from IP address 62.252.96.14
I too lost the love of my life my husband Douglas four years ago and my mom two years later..they both have showed me many ways and many times that they are always with me.. it is comforting isn't it to know we are still connected. I have 3 children but they are now grown now. Your children are so young... I am so sorry for your loss... (((hugs to you))) ...Joann
Posted on Dec 18, 2006, 8:21 AM from IP address 24.66.94.141
If you have returned after being ignored for so long, sorry, hon... I just noticed your post.
Of course I am so sorry your husband is not with you to help and enjoy raising the kids... but, I choose to believe that these arrangements by God/the Universe are for the highest good of all involved... for myself and all of you.
Your kids, since they are aware of their Dad as he is in spirit, are growing up with wonderful and special knowledge...
I pray you all live happily in peace, knowing that all is as it should be, and that your husband, the kids' Dad is happy and thriving in the next world.... and would want you all to thrive, too!
Sending you hugs and kisses for some comfort and peace of mind,
Robin
Posted on Jan 12, 2007, 5:40 PM from IP address 75.192.72.57
Hi ladies...I have used the email addie on your home page and emailed a picture of the baby for you both to see...he is a darling and we adore him....hugs to you both ...Joann~
Posted on Dec 9, 2006, 12:17 PM from IP address 24.66.94.141
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