Dear Putting Nut,
Short putts are mostly about the straightness of the stroke. If the emphasis stays on the "touch" timing of a gravity-sponsored stroke, this causes a lack of calmness that arises from the internal sense that the stroke is not big enough. On many occasions, the stroke needs to stay small, alright, and this "constraint" that makes any larger stroke feel "wrong" and "to be avoided" is definitely there. I believe that this disquiet is really coming from the pendulum gravity-sponsored stroke requiring a minimal bigness to kick fully into gear. There seems to be a certain minimum largeness of backstroke and corresponding peaking speed downward to fully engage the comfortable sense of timing that usually goes along with this sort of stroke.
A number of people experience the same thing you report, so I have been working on just this issue for a few months or so. My "solution" or "suggestion" thus far is to forget "touch" for these putts and shift focus almost entirely to the straightness of the stroke and roll. This means pay close attention almost exclusively to the squareness of the putter coming into impact, the centering of the sweetspot thru the ball, and the slight rising blow thru the back of the ball out the front of the ball as the rising lead shooulder and steady pivot cast the putter face square down the line. With this "action" in the stroke being the primary focus of attention and intention, and only modest attention to get the distance right without babying the putt or over-rushing the hole, the concern for what happens in the backstroke dissipates. The end result is a more secure, confident management of the task.
None of this is to say "a quick stroke is best on short putts", because I have not found that to be true. A nice, smooth even-tempo stroke thru the ball on short putts is still the best approach, in my view, but in this case, the primary attention shifts from the distance-control pattern of a "one potato" backstroke to more simply any easy-going backstroke and then a perfectly straight stroke and roll. So just don't try for any particular timing in the backstroke -- just make an easy backstroke of any size and then gently sweep the putter squarely up and down the line thru the ball, with the pivot staying centered and the lead shoulder doing the sweeping.
The visual attention that goes along with this is getting a good strong sense of the line the sweetspot ought to take as the blow rises thru the back-center-front of the ball on the line. It is as if you "see" in advance the straightness of this path thru the ball. The sense is of the middle, upright "disk" of the ball that will roll along on the ground, and then pre-seeing the square putter face rising into and thru the plane of this "disk" out the other side. There is also an awareness of the bottom of the stroke occuring where it is supposed to happen (a bit behind the back of the ball), and the putter face thereafter rising slightly on its way thru the ball.
All this is equivalent to Don Pooley's usual exercise of setting two tee pegs as a "gate" facing the hole from 3-5 feet away, backing a ball up to this gate so the back of the ball protrudes behind the gate (the pegs are almost as wide apart as the ball), and then making a stroke that sends the putter face flush against both tee pegs at the same time on a slight rising trajectory, thus sending the ball off straight. The tendency is to strike the outside tee peg first with the toe end of the putter face, so watch out for that.
Once it is very clear to you what body action will make this sort of straight impact, that is mostly what you focus on to execute these short putts. I wouldn't worry much about having enough pace on the ball to hold the line and make it to the hole -- the real worry is avoiding putting too much pace on the ball, thereby either spoiling the squareness of the stroke or blowing the ball thru the break.
Cheers!
Geoff Mangum
Putting Coach and Theorist
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