Back from holidays and back at work.....thanks for thinking of me !
Not going so full-steam-ahead with TTC anymore though.... Need to start putting it in more of a minor place in my life.
So the holiday was as much a holiday from work as from TTC, and while I'm back at the plan, it's more low-key TCM and IUI now. If I'd known 5 years ago what I know now, I would have fought harder against being pushed into IVF - because that really messed with my body, but I can't undo what was done and I made the best decision I could with the information I had at the time. At 45 it's time to stop the heavy interventions....and the money is all gone anyway !
So back here again
and hoping to offer any suggestions and any personal experience that might support others on the same road