I have been in this boat with one close friend in particular, who has gotten pregnant TWICE during my TTC efforts. It sucks and stings. I did "adjust" each time, after some initial upset. I know it's harder for you, since you won't be able to remove yourself completely, but give yourself some time, maybe a month or so, to see where you are at. Big hugs! And hopefully this woman's good luck will be contagious! I always have my fingers crossed for you with your TTC efforts!