This is just TOO MUCH! (pg ment) (rant)October 11 2011 at 4:47 PM
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Response to need a pep talk - pregnant co-worker is getting me down (x-post)
UGH! This is just way too much. I wish this B**** didn't know about your struggles b/c she sure seems to enjoy rubbing it in. It's BIZARRE. Based on our conversation and this email I find her behaviour absolutely unacceptable. She has crossed all lines of boundaries - what on earth gives her the right? I wish I was there to put her in her place and take up for you!
And, this should die down after a week or two. Not everyone in the office is going to want to talk about pg all the time. That's just the nature of things. The folks most interested in pg are those trying, those currently pg, and those who are new Moms. To everyone else, it'll get pretty boring. Hang in there.
I will say that just recently I've learned that my announcement brought sadness to a couple of gals in my office. I had no idea. One has actually asked me for advice on the process, etc. - I had no idea she was trying! She hid it well. Suffice to say, I would never and can't imagine any sane, relatively well-adjusted person wanting someone else to be sad. It sucks Tracy.
I'm going to pray for you that you are able to just have a stiff upper lip. Tell her that absolutely she should play the guessing game, have a sign up, whatever. That when your turn comes you don't want to tone it down. Your turn will come.
Happy Birthday! This will all work out. It sucks right now, but just wait.
P.S. - I haven't read anyone else's responses....I'll do that now
- Yeah, you called it.... - Tracy on Oct 11, 10:40 PM
- this is true... - anne on Oct 12, 11:55 AM