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How do you keep going?

December 6 2011 at 12:55 PM
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Antonialisa  (no login)

 

Just wondering if anyone has tips on how to manage stress and keep sane through the insanity of infertility. Yesterday I had a down day and I went home and took it out on DH. I was crying and I told him how hard it is for me to help him raise his 2 daughters (it is a lot of work and a massive chunk of my life, and not as rewarding to do all that when the bond isn't as strong) and hard for me that he has children with another woman but not me. He gets really upset and says he is scared I will leave him like his last wife did, and it doesn't help things. I do this from time to time and I try not to but sometimes the pain and frustration just spews out. And the truth is, it is really hard for me to keep going and going, as days, months and years of ttc pass. Please help me, ladies. I'm drowning. How do you keep going on tough days?

 
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  1. I am sorry you are going through this - SMRC on Dec 6, 1:29 PM
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  3. Two Things - DeeinNYC on Dec 6, 2:45 PM
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  5. I can really feel what you're going through - Adee on Dec 6, 3:58 PM
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  7. It is really hard. - Raindrops1 on Dec 6, 4:20 PM
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  9. I agree with SMRC. - BabyDance on Dec 6, 4:33 PM
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  11. i'm so sorry - anne on Dec 6, 5:33 PM
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  13. Thanks so much - Antonialisa on Dec 6, 6:56 PM
    1. hang in there - BroodyHen on Dec 6, 8:07 PM
    2. this may be out of line, but here is a thought.... - ElizaN on Dec 7, 8:22 AM
     
  14. One thing at a time and LOTS of backup options - MIR on Dec 7, 6:02 PM
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  16. kids ment. - K on Dec 8, 2:44 PM
    1. Me, too - ChickenLittle on Dec 8, 5:19 PM
     
  17. It's hard to explain IF + stepparenting - Antonialisa on Dec 8, 9:54 PM
    1. I could've written this - ChickenLittle on Dec 8, 10:49 PM
      1. I hear you - Antonialisa on Dec 9, 1:31 PM
      2. The Thankless job of Stepmom (pg ment) - ALM on Dec 11, 7:41 PM
    2. book about stepmothering - K on Dec 11, 10:25 PM
     
  18. Thanks everyone... - Antonialisa on Dec 11, 10:48 AM
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