That is one of the things that makes me equally angry and sad and what I feel should NOT have to happen for these women.
My wish for all is that doctors in the business of caring for women's health would create better baseline data collection of fertility for women so that those who are hopeful to have children one day don't suddenly find out when they are only 31 years old for example that they inexplicably have DOR or endo or PCOS.
Sure we can aware of our health independently of dr's care BUT norms have to be established differently for things to change.
Also can I add that having one child does not exclude one from the pain of infertility and regret.
I certainly can see how not having any biological children would be an even more difficult experience but I am learning quickly that no one group of infertile women holds a monopoly on this sadness.
Hugs to all of you.