We are in Mass, are 100% self-pay and struggling on the financial side, but decided to go with one last "Hail Mary". I was not comfortable with New Hope, though lots of women are having good experiences there. My RE here in Mass is terrific but we could not afford his IVF costs though we did a couple of unsuccessful IUI's with him (sigh - wish I could have that money back). Based on travel costs and hassle factors, and the big one, cost of IVF, we are with CNY out of Albany/Latham, NY. Self-pay was $7,125, without meds, for 3 cycles, but includes everything else. We were not successful on our first round but have 2 more to go. We sacrificed a car for this - my car is a 1994. We need one. But, I only have so much time to try IVF. I have found CNY to be strong with communication and compassion. I like Dr. Grossman alot and his assistant has been terrific. I think they are strong with DE but we are still stubbornly trying with OE.
We didn't check stats (people may think I'm crazy) but I feel like they have a strong DE program, a good RE, as good a lab as any, strong communication, and they have reasonably priced IVF.
You may be in California for all I know.
But if you are on the east coast maybe it's a reasonably priced option for you....?
(No, I have absolutely no affiliation with them. Zero. I just think $7,125 for 3 cycles - though expensive - is less than most RE's. If anything, I love Dr. Cardone in Mass - he gave us our DD.)