It's funny...you have raised the very same points that my therapist did when I told her that I would love to have twins. She said that at my age...45...if I were to turn up with twins, more people would tend to believe that I used DE's...which I do intend to use. She said that people are less likely to question the birth of one child at my age. I also understand teh physical demands of having twins at this age. I just wonder if I would be more equipped to go back at 47 for a single than I am now to handle twins? I really don't know. At this point in my journey...twins vs a single sounds like a HAPPY problem to have
