You are absolutely right. Children can't help who they are born to - and our situations could have easily been different. Perhaps even, these babies need/deserve a loving home even MORE than any other baby.
Good luck in your journey. You'll be a great mom to whatever baby comes your way.
P.S. Also everyone - please excuse the ridiculous number of typos in my original message. I think I was typing so quickly and passionately that I didn't even notice.