de, adoption ment. (failure ment)June 21 2012 at 8:31 PM
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Response to for those who eventually decide to stop trying
The person mentions in the article, that its hard to find support network of people who had given up the battle, and did not want to pursue adoption or third party reproduction.
I think it is important to recognize that not everyone can continue on with adoption or DE, when other methods have not worked. Many people eventually run out of funds, and don't have money left to continue with these things. And DE and adoption are not guarantees, either. Many DE cycles fail for unknown reasons, and adoption attempts can fail. I remember my husband buying a book about international adoption; the author of the book had adopted an infant, and she had 3 failed adoption attempts prior to that. Yet, she said in her book that adoption is a "guarantee". That made me angry. There are no guarantees.
- Re: de, adoption ment. (failure ment) - Kim on Jun 22, 5:38 AM
- Chinese adoption - K on Jun 22, 6:33 PM