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NO harm in exporing your options... (DE DD ment, adopt too)
lauranz (Login phoebegrace) Posted Oct 10, 2011 11:12 PM
and having your next step(S) lined up in this game.
We did the full adoption prep while we were thought we were just gathering information and deciding our next steps and before we knew it we had been picked and the baby was due.
That scenario ended disastrously, but that was just terrible luck on our parts. But what it did do for me was open up my mind and my heart to find my baby. (I have a 9month old DD via DE now who just blows me away with joy...).
My fave book on my decision making process was called "Be My Baby", by Gail Kinn.
I know only too well how gruelling such news as 'there are no follies, sorry', can be.
And you've been working so hard for so long to make your baby, as I had.
As intelligent beings we can only take so much of one experiment before we must move onto a new way to stay sane. We all have different lengths of rope, and different timeframes of what we can endure.
Only you will know when you need to try something new.
The godsend is that there are other options available to us.
I"m sorry you've had this news.
Hang in there.