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IF is so draining on every level, emotional, financial, physical and so on. Moving on to DE is a grieving process and it took me about 3yrs to do it and feel okay with my decision. I was told at 35 my only option would be DE. We tried 6 ivf's and about 10 iui's. I have a 4yo DC from DE and IF does not sting as much, although with family PG announcements it still hurts (even though I am so grateful to have 1 child).
It took me a long time to be able to look through the donor db's and read about their profiles and so on just b/c I felt it was so unfair and kind of a weird place to be in. But in the end I was so fed up with all the failed cycles that I just wanted a child in our family to love. DC is a dream and the joy he has brought us is unmeasurable. I wish you the best of luck in whatever you decide. sending hugs to you.