I'm sorry you've been through so much, but I wanted to let you know there is hope. MY 44 year old friend recently had a baby (with an FSH of 30+). Cysts just mess up the cycle they appear in. They come and go. Waiting for a good cycle and finding a good RE is important. As for the DES issues, I hope someone has answers for you here....Just keep seeking for your answers. You'll find a wealth of info here. Good luck!