Hi very new to all of this but... Right now I am doing massage with liquid Fenugreek and a body butter is there a better medium to mix the fenugreek with. Are there good recipies for a breast massage cream.

Yes! Certain oils can be absorbed through the skin much better than the body butters.
Try oils like, Soy,Olive oil,safflower or Almond oil. Mix your herbs with your oil of choice,Let it sit for a couple of weeks, then strain it and start massaging.