Hi,..I was just wondering if you read my questions to you at the end of the threads on your topic post of "...partial feminization".
Could ya read it and get back with me in this thread?
It was about those "dating sites",and which ones you would recommend to seek the types of people i listed in that post.
Thanks, Cheers,Davilee

I am still suffering from the havoc wreaked by hurricane Katrina on my life, so I stay incredible busy.

It may sound boring, but I do not have any information on sites for you. I pretty much have had to work 24/7 the last three years. I have almost 0 time for the internet. I joined this site because it is small and addresses a very narrow and important topic right now and I like the people here.

But I met my wife on match.com. And before that I had about a dozen girlfriends all over the world and actually met a few of them. This was after a divorce during which my wife told me I would never meet another woman because I was too sick, too old, too fat, and too ugly. Now I have the best woman. The one I always dreamed of. Go figure!

What I was trying to get across to you was a concept. If you get creative enough and are willing to look beyond the limitations we usually set ourselves, you CAN meet a woman that will love you for who you are. I am not talking sex here. But a life long thing. (Although my wife and I do have the greatest sex).

Without wanting to appear presumptuous I think there was one thing that made me particularly successful when contacting the women that interested me. I hear that guys can write 100 email and get almost no replies. That was not my experience. Fifty percent of the letters or emails I wrote I got replies on. And believe me my pics were not that great. I used my feminine side to appeal to their instinct of wanating a softer guy. Many of the women I dated already had kids. They had already been through bad deals with guys. They wanted a marriage thing. I had that to offer. I also wrote only one girl at a time and totally devoted myself to that person to see if there could get somewhere. If I saw it was going nowhere, I always called and called it quits. Never left anyone hanging. If it looked good I pursued it with all my energy. It all panned out in the end. I could not be happier now.

Hope this helps, my friend.

Cecilia

Sincerely - and with love,

Ceciliaptgirl

Yah,I get what your saying....
but,I dont fit into hetero normal orientation at all....
Im attracted to guys,and TSgurls and TGfolk also and since Ive been boosting my girl hormones,I've just been getting more desirous of men.
I had some weird hormone levels BEFORE I started supplementing EST'S......
Well,it was a risk.....I knew that it would probably change my orientation around as it affects changes to the mental "programing"..and Im already variable anyway.

Don't feel like the only one.
I am very much attracted to women and mostly identify as a lesbian and probably bi.
Matter of fact I was in a relationship with a confirmed lesbian once. Really. I even have her name tattooed on me.
She lived with me for awhile and our relationship was a good one but in the end she left me for a more manly woman.. Go figure.. The woman she left me for was a diesel dyke, the first time I met her I thought she was a guy in drag. LOL!

I was married once and I was pretty much the wife. I assumed all the female duties.
My ex would stop off on her way home from work and buy me a new dress or some heels on payday.
It was a very odd marriage. Oh, the bridesmaid as a Tgirl (my best friend). The original plan was for ME to wear the wedding gown. But something went wrong and we lost the deposit on it and that didn't happen after all.

As for sexual orientation, mine is "yes" I am sexually oriented. I've never been with a male but I would consider it because there's been a few I've been attracted to. Tgirls, for sure. I would prefer a transwoman to a male anyday. The best place to find a c*ck is on a woman. I've seen some extremely beautiful women that are perfectly happy keeping their original plumbing. They live totally as women and pass perfectly. They can even pass wearing a G-string or thong at a public pool or beach.. You would *never* guess. That's a pretty good arrangement, a woman & a c*ck.. Men, eh.. Not so much. Not very interested in them, well just a little.
Women, hell yes! Any woman is fine, I don't care what she has in her panties, an innie or an outie is fine with me. Pre-op, non-op, post-op, GG, I don't care, as long as they are women then I'm open.
The only way I would consider a relationship with a man would be on a FB level, I think another term is "friends with benefits".. But I'm not going to entertain that option for quite some time. I want to progress further in my transition. Also since being on whore-moans now I've had some serious changes in my ways of thinking and in my heart. Estrogen is a mind altering drug. Really. It's seriously altered the way I felt about many things in life.

Right now I'm not emotionally stable enough to be in a relationship so I don't even try right now to look.
I'm sure there's plenty of places to look when the time comes.

Anyway, I just wanted to throw that out. I think a lot of us are in a similar situation, that is one of wanting to but holding off until the time is right. Being trans gives me many options but I feel it's best not to act upon any of them at this point in my life no matter how lonely I may be.

I suggest that others should also consider moving slowy when it comes to seeking out relationships because we are basically "little girls" just entering puberty and emotionally and socially we are still very immature.
That is unless you've already spent several years living full time as a woman.

Yes,I hear ya clearly....
You speak a lot of good things.
hehehe....awhile back i wouldve considered sex with a man ONLY as a little fantasy thing sometimes musing that I might persue it....
Now gaaaaawd...Im definitely all hot for it...uhm..the right guy of course..I have standards ya know,and I so want...err...GEEEEZ...I almost started gushing about what my fantasies are; but I think that I'll refrain...sorry..
oh, I know that i could find the right guy,even in podunk...
I could get along well with a guy that was into TG/TS,its finding younger ones thats the prob here...
Ive tried to find a Tgirl,that's looking for the same..but..i guess I'll save myself until I get out of here and over to the West coast,
I have several friends from tribes that keep on me to get my ass over there,because they were where i am now and they found great communities out there.It'll be nice to have connections when i finally get to move.
I cant F'ing wait anymore,Im so ready to get out there...Ive got so many positive feelings about it.Gaaawd to finally be somewhere were there are alot of others like me and to have the social support of them...AND a chance to remake myself right off,because no one will know who i was...except my friends.