I am new to this forum. I spent a great deal of time reading through the old posts and one particular post discussed if men looked at other men's crotch. I am a heterosexual and have this to offer:
I notice everything about a man or woman's body. If a man is dressed in shorts, I notice if his legs are pencils or well built. It is just human nature. If a woman's "head lights" shine bright, I notice.
Yes, I notice another human being from head to toe, male or female; it is only natural! The human body is beautiful and we humans desire to look at the creation.
Men are not truthful when they shower with other men and say they do not notice another man's penis or say that they do not notice a man's penis outlined through his pants. Men notice, some admit it and homophobic men deny it, but men notice.
Noticing the crotch is no exception to noticing any other body part(s).
Thank you Tony you are the only hetero male I know that would admit to noticing. I too se nothing wrong with noticing it doesnt mean Im attracted I just notice. I have busted by male friends and rediculed for looking but it's just in my nature to look people up and down male and female alike. I am married with children and I am not attracted to the same sex but I notice.
Tim, men have been conditioned to say that they don't look; however, they do look. I will NEVER believe that a man works out in a gym and does not notice a man's penis while taking a shower. I do not fixate, but I notice my male shower partner's body as I would a female showering next to me. The bottom line is the human body is a beautiful thing and we do look at the creation.
Men that deny noticing/looking at another man's crotch is like a man saying that he does not masturbate. Statistics have finally shown that most men do masturbate, whether married or single. I know I masturbate. I have a beautiful wife and I have sex on a regular basis, but I enjoy myself on a frequent basis by masturbating.
I'm always surprised at people who say "always" or "everyone". Sweeping generalizations are just that, and rarely accurate. I rarely notice a guy's crotch unless I think to look - don't really know why - maybe all that repressive Christian training in my youth. I rarely DON'T notice a guy's ass, legs or biceps - but again, always is a goofy, inaccurate word.
As for me I am 100% hetero.. yes I notice both genders and i do know (if I happen to look at the time) when a man, for instance, has well defined arms or has thick muscular legs. However, I never notice a man's crotch UNLESS I think of looking at it (which is very rare, and this is the honest truth). I'm sure this is because im straight and I do not seek to figure out what the guy's package would look like. I am just indifferent.
From the time I was a kid, I noticed bulges in guys' pants. I'm bi, but for the most part gay - so I looked at both chicks and guys, especially in college. I've noticed a lot of straight guys who take a glance at their male counterparts parts