Hi everyone, i am a 27 year old male who has just started my long desire to grow breasts, i know that may seem strange to alot of you, as i am not a transexual or a crossdresser, i am a straight normal man who really feels that he should have breasts and ive felt this way since i was 14. And this post is to really ask what people think of this from a general point of view. As one day i will want a relationship again with a woman, so i was looking to get some honest opinions, good or bad. Could any off you ladies be with a man with breasts or how would you feel if a male friend told you he wanted breasts. This is a general disscusion and can be as deep or light hearted as you want. I personley havent told anyone about what i am doing and know that with time i will have too, so it interests me what people think about this subject. Thank you for reading this post and i hope to get some incite on what people think, so just be honest.
Thanks Cheryl x
Perosnally I don't understand it. I was quite surprised in my several years on the forum to come across several men like you, wanting to grow breast and identifying themselves straight and not transexual or crossdresser. For me personally it would be a turnoff. I think it may be for lots of women, probably because we don't understand it. Can you explain why you want breasts? How does it go together with the male ego, guys' usual desire and aim to be manly and macho and all that?
Hi Moon, thanks for your reply. I have to admit to being confused myself about it for along time, when i was 18 i did go to see a therapist to see if i was a transexual, and after 4 sessions i was told that i was not a transexual and the therapist put it down to it being a fantasy and that i wouldent really want it to happen. But i have no sexual interest in this, for me personly i feel that they are missing and they should be there for some reason. But other than that i have no desire to be a woman or anything like that, i have started to wear a bra though which was a tough decision for me to make.And i feel that some men need to have a softer side and not be so aggressive all the time and just be who they are and not who people say they should be. And i feel the same about women, Why shouldent they play rugby and why should a man earn more, why shouldent a woman be a fireman, we all can be whoever we choose to be the problem comes of what people percieve as normal and if we fall out of that catagory. Which a man with breasts does as do many other things. Im sorry to go on so much but its a very hard question to answer and nobody has ever asked me before, as nobody who knows me has any idea i am doing this yet. I hope this has helped a little Moon, and please feel free to ask anymore questions you have have, and thank you for your time. x
i think you're very brave for taking this step. having breasts is a nurturing and feminine icon, women feed children with them, and they feel womanly with them. i think its very natural to want that, even if you are a male. feel free to message me if youd like, i dont see you on the forum much :)
Hi Buta, thank you so much for your message it means alot to have a little support thank you. I know a lot of people will see what i am doing as strange and i can understand that and respect ther opinions, but i feel i have to do this and im very lucky as i am having great results and i feel i could be one of the lucky few who develop well, thats what im hoping. I have told a female friend today, and i got a nice response. She laughed a little to start with and joked which i dont mind as it was friendly and i could tell she was in shock a little, and then she asked alot of questions and requested to see my results upto now, so i showed her, i felt a little embarresed but she was really great about it, she was in shock but she made me feel alot better and not as scared. She said she doesent understand why i want them but if this is what i want she is fine with it aslong as i dont grow bigger than she is lol, which is very unlikely. So it is really nice to have a response from you Buta that has also made me alot happier, it has been a good day. I hope all is going well for you and if i can be of any help or you just feel down and want a chat i will be here, i do have alot of ups and downs at the minute so it would be great to speak to you sometimes on here. Thanks again Buta x
Anytime Cheryl!! Male or Female, we are all a family here on this NBE forum, and we should all support each other so everyone can get what they are working and hoping for :)
in answer to your question, I think in general straight girls dont find breasts on a man to be a plus. For the same reason straight guys generally dont go looking for a woman with a full grown beard. Straight woman like men, so in turn they like manly features, not so much feminine ones on a guy. But I'm sure that if a woman thinks youre great in every other way that the fact that you have man boobies wont bother her so much.
Hi Supafly, thanks for posting on what many would see as a strange subject lol. I know that females in general do not find a man with breasts attractive as like you said, they like a man to be a man and in general men do not have breasts. So i have realised that by doing what i have i may never have a relationship again. But i have accepted that and it does make me a little sad, but i have to do this for myself to be happy, and it would be unfair of me to be with a woman and keeping my true self from them, i would never be truely happy and that would not be fair on anybody. So this way if i ever do meet a woman that likes me she will know from the start who i am and she can decide herself if she could ever be with me. Thank you so much for your opinion and i hope all goes well for you. x
I have to say I don't really understand it (and as a woman, I would be entirely turned off by it) but I expect many people don't either. That being said, you're probably going to have to be really strong to take the sort of criticism and judgement that will come along with this life choice you are making. It's quite surprising that you are even willing to give up future relationships for this. This must certainly be a strong source of identity for you. You mentioned in a earlier post that when you were dressing like a woman, you actually liked the way men looked at you? Maybe I misread. Do you not feel any attraction towards men? I just think this is very strange. But, I do wish you the best of luck and happiness in your quest!
Hi Sandra, thanks for your post. I must admit a lot has changed since i started NBE including me, i have had major changes in my appearance and i have feminised alot. Now if any men wanting to grow boobs read this, it isent all down to me taking BB, i have a hormone problem caused by having a testicle removed when i was young and the BB has caused me to feminize due to me having a very low testosterone count. But i have continued down this road so it is my choice to do it. I have to admit to starting to be attracted to men and less so towards women, i dont know why this is, maybe its the hormones and being percieved as a woman myself at times. It is very difficult at times knowing that i am beginning to find men attractive as i have always been straight and have never even thought about men in this way. I am now just letting the hormones take there course and just going with it. Thanks for the interest. xxx
I just thought I would ad my 2 cents in here since this is off the radar of the main page where you were beginning to get a bit of 'flak'.
There are several cases of men who are married and apparently heterosexual who want to grow breasts. They seem to crop up from time to time and like the others who posted here... I did not understand - but Hey - it is a big world and there is room enough for us all.
At first I thought that your attraction to wanting breasts was a body dysmorphic kind of thing - meaning you identified something lacking and were obsessed with obtaining it. This kind of thing can drive women and men into extremes of plastic surgery.
However, you have started to have a change in sexual inclination. This is not a hormone response. This may be a 'peer pressure' response - sort of like a mass hysteria where the people around you begin to effect what you perceive as acceptable and normal. Those around you think that the only way you could want to have breasts is to be homosexual or transsexual. This pressure leads to a change in your perception. You may not truly have these desires but the want to fit in is so strong that you are swayed by this.
Now back to the hormones again. If you give a woman a whole bunch of testosterone she will grow hairy, her muscles will develop, her voice will lower and even her clitoris will enlarge. She will not however change sexuality based on her hormones. She would probably desire sex more, but she would desire it with her previous sexual inclinations.
If a woman's sexual organs are removed, uterus and ovaries, she will enter menopause and sexual desire will decline unless hormones are supplied. She will not however change sexual orientation.
If a man's testicles are removed his sexual desire will decline and his ability to achieve erections will become less likely. He will not however change sexual orientation.
You are speaking of a change in identity that may very well be enhanced by the hormones, but not caused by them. I say this in no way to disrespect you or to signify there is something wrong with you. I say this because I feel you are going to need a lot of help with this transition.
Since you say you have never contemplated homosexuality before then it must have been an unconscious desire that can now fly free. Either that or you are being influenced by your peer group which will come back to haunt you. In either situation, you need help in charting through these new waters.
For a person to make such a life change much later than puberty is very difficult for the psyche. You have had psychological help before and I suggest you seek it again.
We as humans tend to swing from one edge of a pendulum to another during a crisis and our first responses/reactions are not what they will be when we have had time to adapt. The way the world works is that you will be judged by your initial changes. Nobody will remember that you mellowed out later. If you swing full fling into homosexuality and later figure out it was not exactly where you were going ... too late for public opinion. You will be labeled and they won't relabel you further.
Whoever you are is okay. You are obviously a thoughtful person and you express yourself well. Just get some help in figuring all this out if you aren't already.
Well, there's no way I can respond to what waxingmoon said, that was a great stand-alone message. But I can add my 2 cents...
I'm sorry if my sense of humour offends anyone, but being bisexual myself, I think finding a man with breasts is definetly a plus. I'd be concerned with how they got to be there and the health risks, but that would be only natural since I would care for him.
And I don't think the fact that you want breasts is strange at all, I tell my boyfriend all the time that I wish I had a nutsack of my own because it looks like a very fun thing to play with. Growing my own would be impossible if not extremely hard and dangerous, so I don't go about trying to get one, but I assume it is sort of the same with you and breasts.
Just watch your health for any other unwanted reactions, as breasts are part of a package and nature does not sell them separately. My best wishes go to you.
Oh! I was watching the WWE Summer Slam last night, and me and some friends spotted fake pectorals on one of the wrestlers. When he wasn't flexing, they were so large and round that they looked like breasts, and they even shook a little like breasts.
Maybe he had some type of implant put in that is more like a silicon gel breast, and not the hardened type of implant normally used to create male muscles.
Perhaps you could research this option of pectoral implants, and maybe you could even find a size that both satisfies you and can give you the illusion of having the breasts you want, and at the same time they won't look weird for other people, you'll just look muscley!
We do complain all the time about how men can grow their chest muscles and have great boob-looking things, but us women can't.