go to the pink board http://www.network54.com/Hide/Forum/247611
the link is at the top of this main board, you will find many moms who are 50 or over, or very close to 50. In fact, Hope2009 is just pregnant with twins after she had her DE son a while ago... I am pretty sure she is 51. My cycle buddy Andrea from 3 years ago had twins (her first children) when she was 50 and there are many other older moms who have used DE to have their families. As long as your clinic is willing to work with you, there is no reason that you couldn't be successful with a different donor. Welcome to the forum, and I hope your stay here is short!