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What to do? (adoption ment)

December 14 2010 at 1:44 PM
SAgirl  (Login brandygg)

 

It never rains but pours, but it doesn't make things easier. A friend of mine has offered to have a baby for dh and I. She is South African but lives abroad and plans to have the baby here where we will adopt it. It won't be a surrogacy but an adoption. We wanted to go with Dylan's birth mom but that will only happen next year some time when my inheritance comes through.......so am thinking of her going ahead and trying to fall pregnant in the meantime and if it doesn't work, going ahead with Dylan's birth mom. It is all crazy, but I am 47 and feel the sooner the better, plus she has full medical cover there, so we will only have to pay for the birth. Am I crazy or not??? Haven't even told Dh yet.
Brandy
(Durban, South Africa)

 
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  1. I don't quite understand - Renata on Dec 14, 2010
    1. sorry forgot an important bit of info - SAgirl on Dec 14, 2010
    2. hi Renata! - Orchid on Dec 14, 2010
     
  2. to me this is like a gift - Orchid on Dec 14, 2010
    1. Lol I told the social worker today - SAgirl on Dec 14, 2010
     
  3. what a terrific opportunity... - lauranz on Dec 14, 2010
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  5. I'd go for it - KellyCA on Dec 15, 2010
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  7. I don't think I'd go for it - E&H on Dec 15, 2010
    1. Re: I don't think I'd go for it - SAgirl on Dec 15, 2010
      1. Slow down - TH on Dec 15, 2010
        1. Re: Slow down - SAgirl on Dec 16, 2010
          1. Another worry for me - E&H on Dec 16, 2010
            1. you right - SAgirl on Dec 16, 2010
     
  8. I wouldn't do it - Catherine on Dec 15, 2010
    1. I second this. I am also worried about her vague information - Daisy on Dec 15, 2010
    2. Re: I wouldn't do it - SAgirl on Dec 15, 2010
     
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