It never rains but pours, but it doesn't make things easier. A friend of mine has offered to have a baby for dh and I. She is South African but lives abroad and plans to have the baby here where we will adopt it. It won't be a surrogacy but an adoption. We wanted to go with Dylan's birth mom but that will only happen next year some time when my inheritance comes through.......so am thinking of her going ahead and trying to fall pregnant in the meantime and if it doesn't work, going ahead with Dylan's birth mom. It is all crazy, but I am 47 and feel the sooner the better, plus she has full medical cover there, so we will only have to pay for the birth. Am I crazy or not??? Haven't even told Dh yet.
(Durban, South Africa)