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There is no easy solution *sigh* (adoption mentioned)

December 18 2010 at 5:08 AM
  (Login brandygg)


So I our social worker faxes me the new surrogacy laws. Firstly it is going to cost a fortune and secondly the surrogate has to become pregnant with either my egg or dh's sperm. Now my eggs have passed their sell by date and dh does not have any sperm. I also doubt that any gynae is going to do iui for us on someone else if we just explain the situation. So am sitting not knowing what to do. Our social worker says that can't lie and say the birth mom just fell pregnant and wanted to place the baby with us. Does anyone have any ideas?

South Africa

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  1. you'd have to get another surrogate - Orchid on Dec 18
    1. would rather use her for donor egg, but - SAgirl on Dec 18
      1. I definitely don't blame you - Orchid on Dec 18
  2. Find the way around the law. I think your case is different - LizLA on Dec 18
    1. lol dh says tell her " I totally agree!" (nt) - SAgirl on Dec 18
  3. Contact Tertia Albertyn of 'Nurture' - diaphanta on Dec 18
    1. Thanks have just emailed her (nt) - SAgirl on Dec 18
      1. in the US the laws about this change from state to state, even county to county! - Anonymous on Dec 18
        1. Thanks - SAgirl on Dec 18
  4. I would do it as adoption not surrogacy - E&H on Dec 18
    1. That is what dh says, but - SAgirl on Dec 19
      1. You would probably - Catherine on Dec 19
        1. Not sure, but - SAgirl on Dec 19
    2. Well lots of single mums go to SA for DE IVF - E&H on Dec 19
      1. lol I like your way of thinking - SAgirl on Dec 19
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