Have you looked into cycling at CNY in NY? The cost for a single cycle including donor (but not meds) is $11k. I did a freeze all cycle back in the spring with a really nice donor who has 2 degrees and very pretty. I'm also single so I was looking for someone as close to me as possible. My sperm donor is a very handsome doctor (wish I could date him!). I'm about to do my FET in Feb. after I do the CGH testing on the embryos.