that's very interesting! Is it just that you would like the donor more or you think it would affect the child?
Please don't answer if you are uncomfortable but: Are you Catholic or Bible believing Christian?
I just ask because I have some emotional conflicts about DE (VERY personal--just reactions) because my religion forbids it--but I believe for reasons which do not apply in this case. (Hah--my religion does not like people who look for exceptions but I do have a good argument I won't go into)
A lot of religions forbid this process...I have been so curious to know if this is an issue for anyone and how they dealt with it.