humm (baby ment)February 16 2011 at 12:35 AM
|TH (Login perthkitty)|
Response to If you were successfull with a DE and believe in a higher being, question
I guess I sort of believe in a 'plan' that had to happen for us to get to where we are at.
I began this journey alone and was alone for many cycles.
If the IVF had worked I most likely wouldn't have met my future husband nor had his/our child.
I love our little guy. He is DE sure. But he is 100% mine. I mean I 'made' him on many levels if you know what I mean. I look at him and see my baby... all mine... all ours.
In the very very beginning of him arriving I thought 'yeah he is lovely but the credit doesn't really belong to me'.
Well heck Batman thats not true and I now know it. Now I just think 'he is all mine, every cell, every little fingernail I 'grew' him. Every cell except one. Now thats enough for me (big smile).
YOu cannot change the past only create the future. best TH.
edited to mention that we had a surrogate booked if that cycle didn't work. My thoughts on surrogacy were this will be exactly the same baby as if I had had him myself and this would have been true. With surrogacy you have the same baby only you take a little different route to get the babe here.
|This message has been edited by perthkitty on Feb 16, 2011 12:40 AM|