I did spend 10 years waiting and trying (children, fostering mentioned)March 3 2011 at 11:02 AM
|BlessedThistle (no login)|
Response to Am I one of the only ones...(sorry long bitter rant & questions)
Not that I could afford financially or emotionally to try every month or even every other month. I spent about $40,000 with breaks from ttc in there. And I was a foster mother for a year in there to two children cocaine exposed in utero and their mother had another child (healthy thank God and she got to retain custody) while they were in my care, and despite my feelings of envy and feeling the unfairness of it all, I still had to be supportive of their mother and be happy for her that the child was not removed from her care. So I can relate.
Do keep in mind that many many women graduate from yellow, may spend a little while on pink....and are gone. I suspect those of us who have had some extra challenges thrown our way like the comfort of the pink board.