My Mom and hubby are great, and now, of course, my Mom is super supportive, but I think they both have some notion of "Fate" in their heads. I most definitely do NOT believe in fate. I just try to keep smiling and keep trucking as best as I can!
Course if I die in childbirth I'll be wrong! Ha! I guess I should not joke about that...it just seems so so far away.
Also, my Mom is terminally ill now after a pretty tough life, so she can get down sometimes...that's not her usual MO.