We have just found out that on top of all our other fertility problems (no sperm after cancer treatment and recurrent miscarriages) I have now also got early menopause at the age of 35. Our first IVF cycle 4 years ago gave us 17 eggs and 10 perfect blasts and 4 miscarriages. I have now got immune testing and treatment but can't get pregnant with my crappy eggs. I got 10 eggs on the last cycle but only one looked decent on day 3 and it was a BFN.
We are now ready to move on to donor eggs.
Were we live it is not allowed with both donor egg and sperm so we have to go abroad and we have an US sperm donor that we just fell in love with so we would like to cycle in the US. But open ID is very important to us, we have that for the sperm, the child has a right to request name and contact information when he/she turns 18. We would now love to get something similar with the egg donor but I can only find anonymous options.