I'm actually in Arizona. We chose to go out of state for both our own egg and donor embryo cycles (didn't have good experiences with clinics here). I would have gone back to Oregon if they had a donor embryo program, but I found NCRM instead. I'm 16 weeks pregnant now and doing a bit better after some really wretched morning sickness/vomiting up until week 14.
The other site that I go to is through fertilityfriend.com. There is a buddy group/forum on there for those considering/cycling with donor embryo. It is pretty active, although I think the site might require payment for long term use since it coupled with charting software and such.
I'm not sure why the donor embryo board on this site is so dead, but feel free to ask me any donor embryo questions on that board if you want. Maybe we can get some traffic going!