I know everyone is different but if I was told a date that I would start the dreaded lupron. So how long is it typically once you start your meds to when your donor is ready? This is my first DE cycle so I am pretty green to this so please excuse if this is a dumb question. As, would the donor start medicine at the same time or does her's start before or after? I am just trying to get a time frame in my head, it helps me to put it in prespective.