I'm so sorry for your pain, Newbie, & I hope you succeed soon.
I think we have to be careful about assuring women they will get over it & never be sad, but we have to be equally careful about telling them they will never get over it & will always be sad.
I am not sad. Not at all. There are many women like me. There are also many women who will forever mourn the genetic loss. No one is right & no one is wrong b/c it is how we feel, but esp. with those new to DE, I think it can be scary to read they will always feel sad. This may end up true for them, but it may not.
I wish you the best in your journey.